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thechivalrous

22 / m / straight / single

Sacramento, California, United States

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strong, virtuous, and compassionate

My self-summary Propose an edit

I am Type O personality. I am very deep, compassionate, complicated, malleable, and blend with any scene but prefer to be enriched by people who are similarly afflicted. I am Type O personality, universal donor, but I have hard time finding others like me. I love to inspire, elevate, motivate and help people. So if you're looking for a pusher, fighter, passionate type, I'm your man, however, I reserve my heart for those who can lift me up and inspire me to keep on keeping on. I am an experience not a ride, I don't like browsers and taste testers so airy signs and sampler types leave me be. My time is precious, and I've had enough runaway romances to

I love people who love and express themselves with passion and spirit and disregard the restrictions of the world around them. People who are truly genuine and live beyond pessimism, self hate and addiction, those who rise above. Sometimes, it's a lonely world, but you'll find people like me crying out, and reaching out to everyone. I love life and the challenges of perception and potential.

Me in a nutshell: Virgo : is the sixth and mutable/earth sign of the zodiac. General personality traits of a typical Virgoan: Positive: Helpful and gentle with the helpless, empathetic and sympathetic, humane, health conscious, charming and witty, affectionate and dedicated. Negative: Critical of laziness in others, demanding, untidy, somewhat a hypochondriac, moody, eccentric and anxious.

I take it seriously and so should you. I've been around the block a few times, tested the waters, and know who I am and what I want.

I believe in doing only what I am passionate about and then figuring a way to make a living doing it. At the same time, I am pretty practical and always pay the bills on time-a little neurotic like that. I love to write and am currently looking for more ways to make a living doing it, but I work as a consultant and am never without work.

I am a little bit of everything, prep, artist, nerd, jock, hippy, music junkie. I love to write so check out my blogs or my posts here, www.lastofthechivalrous.com www.digitalliquidity.net www.lunchhourcareermoves.com

I am one of the few guys who would love to talk about anything- I'm honest, bold, and foolish enough to think that some people like that, so feel free to bug me about any topic. I am a positive, enthusiastic, energetic and ambitious guy AND I want to bring more of that into my life. I listen to all sorts of music, but for the most part, I want to be inspired, invigorated and energized, and tend to listen to music to encourage those moods. I do have my angry metal moments.

I tend to raise hell with my friends and love sarcastic humor.I love to rock climb, box, kayak, hike, road trips, sailing- though rarely given the opportunity, random adventures, dance- hip hop, a little salsa, can't remember any line dancing but I'm sure it would come back to me if I got out on the floor again.

I am a movie junkie, people person- I love to study people. I love animals- more a dog guy than a cat man- but I know some cool felines.
I am a very passionate person- I pursue things rigorously, and I defend my arguments passionately-I am a debate brat, but if you're right I eventually come around like Fred Flintstone- admit it and try to make up for it. I'm working on it, I try to live with more compassion and the more difficult or challenging things are, the more I'm motivated to do them.

If you've read this far without throwing up, you should shoot me a message sometime. -Nicholas

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

So many things- living life like it counts. I'm always on an adventure,hiking, camping, kayaking, biking, working with people I love and trying to help those around me. Feel free to peek at my myspace to find out what I'm up to. myspace.com/mcgillnicholas

I love to write- it's my passion, although I hastily put this profile together. Adventure is my other addiction lately and gives me something to write about- it is a poor substitute for romance, but what can I say, living in this city- there a few to no good girls left who want a good romance- if you know any cute ones that could use a hopeless romantic and wouldn't cheat or stray, let a guy know

I'm really good at Propose an edit

Art, communication, feats of strength and endurance, complicated webs and intricate subtleties of romance. I train with army ranger recruits, marines, firefighters and anyone who will venture out with me.

I'm really good at dragging my best friend Jas AKA friendlyjbear on my many misadventures. He is my Poncho Villa and conscience, we are like House and Wilson- so go check him out as well.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

Usually people notice that I wear a Celtic cross and think me a religious nut. It's more about heritage, faith, and home than religious symbolism. I live by my own religion, my premium blend of Eastern, Western and invented beliefs. It reminds me to be virtuous, compassionate and to strive to become something greater than myself. I've worn it since I was 17 and my brothers who have also made similar choices with their lives do the same. So if you see some lunatic cracking skulls, smiles, and crackin open wine bottles, don't be alarmed- we're the good guys.

My hair, clothes, crooked smile, sarcastically silly serious stature, my looks, laugh and crazy gung ho attitude. I'm often treated like dirt because I'm "handsome" but I was the fat sensitive kid throughout high school and like any virgo, there is much more to me and going on in my life. People mistake me for the boy next door but if you look at the test results I am the "lover boy" type, random adventurer looking for true love.

I'm very very....very, active. I love to move, and when I'm finally exhausted, I like to relax and chill, read books, write songs, sing them with you. But if lounging is your primary function, or you are more of a house cat, you'll rarely find me at home unless I'm writing, painting, or creating something.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

The correct answer is all things that inspire, elevate and fuel my fire. I am energy and intensity incarnate but that doesn't mean fast and crazy music all the time. I also enjoy slow dancing (and dancing in general), so if you don't or won't it'll break my friggin heart, as it's been far too long without a slow dance.

"But I, being poor, have only my dreams; I have spread my dreams under your feet; Tread softly because you tread on my dreams." -W.B. Yeats

"Ease off when making love, when writing hard, as the two are often ran by the same motor" -Hemingway

"You have to have confidence to be a champion and that is all I ever wished to be" -Hemingway

"You shall no longer take things at second or third hand, nor look through the eyes of the dead, nor feed on the spectres in books,
You shall not look through my eyes either, nor take things from me,
You shall listen to all sides and filter them from your self."
-Walt Whitman- taught me to read and write for myself

Leaves Of Grass-Walt Whitman -I collect the different editions of the book. A trully awesome friend got me a copy published in 1882. The works of Poe and Yeats. Mostly non-fiction and self help Buddhist Philosophy books The Art of Happiness The Art of War The Wisdom of Forgiveness The Universe in a Single Atom The Tao of Jeet Kun Do-Bruce Lee How to Expand Love with the Dalai Lama, A Movable Feast by Hemingway, Warrior of the Light, The Hero Within by Carol. S. Pearson, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas by Hunter S. Thompson.

Massive Attack, Techno, Alternative, Classical, old School Jazz- Not Kenny G, Rock-Hard Soft, Jimmy Hendrix, Ted Nugent,Sia, DJ Harry, Hip Hop, anything's good. Brad Paisly, Kenny Chesney, and Rascal Flats have grown on me.
Nickelback,Tool, The Fray, Jack Johnson, John Mayer, Disturbed, Sarah McLachlan, Godsmack,Dashboard Confessional, Imogen Heap, Massive Attack, Crystal Method, John Legend, Prodigy, Stabbing Westward, Frank Sinatra, Fireflight, Staind, , Evanescence, DMX, OLD EMINEM, Snoop Dog, Kanye West, James Taylor, Steve Miller Band, Sting, Paul Oakenfold, Steppenwolf, Levi Weaver, Ragina Spector, Maroon 5, Matt Nathonson, Matt Streif, Ray Lamontagne, Landon Pigg, Keith Brooks, Frank Sinatra, Louis Armstrong, The Romantics- their one hit "What I like about you" ,Daughtry, Damien Rice, Ben Harper, Buckcherry, George Straight, Rascal Flats, Brad Paisley, Kenney Chesney, Kieth Anderson, Tim McGraw, Chris Cagle, Jason Aldean, Josh Kelley, Newton Faulkner, Alexi Murdoch, Gary Allen, and I often work out and train to the theme to Last of the Mohicans- That's how bad ass I am.

I grew up with my mom pointing at the TV the archetype of what I was supposed to be and so it was, and is. Speaking of movies-

I'm a crazy movie fanatic and love films that change my life. I just bought the Secret, Sicko, and Once. Anything from the Wachowski Brothers- Matrix Films, Cult Classics, Snatch, Layer , Boondock Saints, Dogma, What Dreams May Come, Romantic Comedies, The Fountain, Serendipity,Documentaries, Action Films-of course, Musicals-except for sound of music, What the Bleep Do We Know?

House, Boston Legal,Shark, Dexter, Grey's Anatomy, Colbert Report, Daily Show, Studio 60, Guilty as charged of watching these with friends and loved ones: Top Chef, American Idol, America's Next Top Model, Project Runway- these are horrible shows but they start great conversation.

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

1. My best friend Jason,-awwe- he's my personal history book\conscience I am House, and he is Wilson. I am Hobbes and he is Calvin.

2. Art/expression all forms- whether I like it/hate it- it always gives me something to talk about, inspires me, and sends me on a journey

3. Communication- I love to connect with people- that's why I'm here-Cell phone, Computer, I like my own private time, but couldn't live in the woods all alone forever.

4. Pen and Paper- I love to write

5. An infinite supply of Buddhist philosophy and self help books. If China had their way and destroyed all of this wonderful knowledge and culture, I'd be screwed.

6.A place to workout. What can I say? I'm an action junkie, my body is a tool, a temple, a playground, an amusement park, and it requires a lot of maintenance and long lines of people-kidding.

- I know everyone says family- I don't have that luxury :( Wish I did.

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

Compassion, Love, Enlightenment, purpose and analyzing my life, my next adventure and how I can help other people and make a living doing so.

I spend a lot of time thinking about places to go, things to see, and things I should be doing. I make lists to keep sane. I mix lists so that I have something to laugh at, like on my shopping list it may say, soy milk, kombucha, a short brunette, asparagus, clean room, a call from you, new cape for suit, repair the batmobile, biceps and cardio. I love it.

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

on random adventures, haunting cafes, going out but not to clubs, maybe hitting some dive bars with friends, I'm spontaneous with Fridays. I could be camping, hiking, reading/writing in a cafe, fighting crime and injustice in the night, etc. I don't have typical Friday nights.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

I'm here for love-a long term relationship. I don't play games. Hurting people or manipulating them to get what I want is completely immoral and I'd rather give than take with people I am interested in, this makes life challenging yet fun.

I am batman- sometimes, I'm out cleanin up the streets, fighting crime and injustice, but I'm always home before dawn :P -I keep a work uniform wherever I go and plenty of gear for insane spontaneous adventures.

I'm the mutable earth- a virgo to a T- I can change on my own- but trying to force me to change is like trying to move a mountain, I must come to change on my own, appeal to my compassion and like Jimmy Hendrix said, standin next to a mountain "I'll chop it down with the edge of my hand". I'm willing to bend for those I love and genuinely love me. Keyword there- is genuinely.

You should message me if Propose an edit

You are a Pisces- they often are my favorite people. hahah !- But really, you are one of the few who will know in one look that there is more to me than this stale rock, and will love the subtleties that I communicate in.

You are a Taurus- lets start to be friends now because I know it takes you forever to love somebody

You are a Capricorn- so we can have some real fun and I can make you laugh all the time

You are a Scorpio- My best friend is a scorpio and I've been attracted to them before knowing full well their sting, but if I sense I'm being manipulated- I'm out.

You are a Libra- Because I've heard good things

I love genuine people who care for others and themselves. Active people, adventurers, hikers, campers, super heroes find me and let's hang.

I LOVE READERS, DREAMERS, ADVENTURERS, and epic Lovers. If you live life like it was your own epic story than we should meet and grab coffee.

Consider yourself unique/interesting.

you're beautiful, sweet, intelligent and looking for a long term relationship

Epic hero and lover in need of adoption- will love for love and a good home
You should message me if you are in need of a hero and man worth writing home about.

I was raised by the TV- unfortunately, so in terms of the land of my reality and most people's land of make believe:

I live everyday like Daniel Day Lewis in Last of the Mohicans, with a natural earthly wisdom and compassion yet hardened with survival skills knowing my way around a musket and tomahawk.

I have a love that can transcend time and space like Robin Williams on What Dreams May Come
I laugh at everything, and will find a way to turn the darkest days into a joke.
I am stubborn, all ego, and strong enough to have earned every drop of confidence, and overfed my ego into a little arrogance.
I believe in myself enough to give the rules and world the finger and tell them all to stick around cuz they ain't seen nothing yet.
I am the type who would march through hell for the one I love and bring her back no matter what the world said. - MAN, MY PROFILE IS LONG- SORRY I'M COMPLICATED.

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thechivalrous: 1075 questions

Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners, Casual encounters (sex partners)
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Virgo and it matters a lot
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Other
Income
N/A
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English

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