thechivalrous
22 / m / straight / single
Sacramento, California, United States
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strong, virtuous, and compassionate
My self-summary Propose an edit
I am Type O personality. I am very deep, compassionate,
complicated, malleable, and blend with any scene but prefer to be
enriched by people who are similarly afflicted. I am Type O
personality, universal donor, but I have hard time finding others
like me. I love to inspire, elevate, motivate and help people. So
if you're looking for a pusher, fighter, passionate type, I'm your
man, however, I reserve my heart for those who can lift me up and
inspire me to keep on keeping on. I am an experience not a ride, I
don't like browsers and taste testers so airy signs and sampler
types leave me be. My time is precious, and I've had enough runaway
romances to
I love people who
love and express
themselves with passion and spirit and disregard the restrictions of
the world around them. People who are truly genuine and live beyond pessimism, self
hate and addiction, those who rise above. Sometimes, it's a lonely
world, but you'll find people like me crying out, and reaching out
to everyone. I love life and the challenges of perception and
potential.
Me in a nutshell: Virgo : is the sixth and mutable/earth sign of
the zodiac. General personality traits of a typical Virgoan:
Positive: Helpful and gentle with the helpless, empathetic and
sympathetic, humane, health conscious, charming and witty,
affectionate and dedicated. Negative: Critical of laziness in
others, demanding, untidy, somewhat a hypochondriac, moody,
eccentric and anxious.
I take it seriously and so should you. I've been around the block a
few times, tested the waters, and know who I am and what I
want.
I believe in doing only what I am passionate about and then
figuring a way to make a living doing it. At the same time, I am
pretty practical and always pay the bills on time-a little neurotic
like that. I love to write and am currently looking for more ways
to make a living doing it, but I work as a consultant and am never
without work.
I am a little bit of everything, prep, artist, nerd, jock, hippy,
music junkie. I love to write so check out my blogs or my posts
here, www.lastofthechivalrous.com www.digitalliquidity.net
www.lunchhourcareermoves.com
I am one of the few guys who would love to talk about anything- I'm
honest, bold, and foolish enough to think that some people like
that, so feel free to bug me about any topic. I am a positive,
enthusiastic, energetic and ambitious guy AND I want to bring more
of that into my life. I listen to all sorts of music, but for the
most part, I want to be inspired, invigorated and energized, and
tend to listen to music to encourage those moods. I do have my
angry metal moments.
I tend to raise hell with my friends and love sarcastic humor.I
love to rock climb, box, kayak, hike, road trips, sailing- though
rarely given the opportunity, random adventures, dance- hip hop, a
little salsa, can't remember any line dancing but I'm sure it would
come back to me if I got out on the floor again.
I am a movie junkie,
people person- I love to study people. I love animals- more a
dog guy than a cat
man- but I know some cool felines.
I am a very passionate person- I pursue things rigorously, and I
defend my arguments passionately-I am a debate brat, but if you're
right I eventually come around like Fred Flintstone- admit it and
try to make up for it. I'm working on it, I try to live with more
compassion and the more difficult or challenging things are, the
more I'm motivated to do them.
If you've read this far without throwing up, you should shoot me a
message sometime. -Nicholas
What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit
So many things- living life like it counts. I'm always on an
adventure,hiking, camping, kayaking, biking, working with people I
love and trying to help those around me. Feel free to peek at my
myspace to find out what I'm up to.
myspace.com/mcgillnicholas
I love to write- it's my passion, although I hastily put this
profile together. Adventure is my other addiction lately
and gives me something to write about- it is a poor substitute for
romance, but what
can I say, living in this city- there a few to no good girls left
who want a good romance- if you know any cute ones that could use a
hopeless romantic and wouldn't cheat or stray, let a guy know
I'm really good at Propose an edit
Art, communication,
feats of strength and endurance, complicated webs and
intricate subtleties of romance. I train with army ranger recruits,
marines, firefighters and anyone who will venture out with
me.
I'm really good at dragging my best friend Jas AKA friendlyjbear on my many
misadventures. He is my Poncho Villa and conscience, we are like
House and Wilson- so go check him out as well.
The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit
Usually people notice that I wear a Celtic cross and think me a
religious nut. It's more about heritage, faith, and home than
religious symbolism. I live by my own religion, my premium blend of
Eastern, Western and invented beliefs. It reminds me to be
virtuous, compassionate and to strive to become something greater
than myself. I've worn it since I was 17 and my brothers who have
also made similar choices with their lives do the same. So if you
see some lunatic cracking skulls, smiles, and crackin open wine
bottles, don't be alarmed- we're the good guys.
My hair, clothes, crooked smile, sarcastically silly serious
stature, my looks, laugh and crazy gung ho attitude. I'm often
treated like dirt because I'm "handsome" but I was the fat
sensitive kid throughout high school and like any virgo, there is
much more to me and going on in my life. People mistake me for the
boy next door but if you look at the test results I am the "lover
boy" type, random adventurer looking for true love.
I'm very very....very, active. I love to move, and when I'm finally
exhausted, I like to relax and chill, read books, write songs, sing
them with you. But if lounging is your primary function, or you are
more of a house cat, you'll rarely find me at home unless I'm
writing, painting, or creating something.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit
The correct answer is all things that inspire, elevate and fuel my
fire. I am energy and intensity incarnate but that doesn't mean
fast and crazy music all the time. I also enjoy slow dancing (and
dancing in general), so if you don't or won't it'll break my
friggin heart, as it's been far too long without a slow
dance.
"But I, being poor, have only my dreams; I have spread my dreams
under your feet; Tread softly because you tread on my dreams."
-W.B. Yeats
"Ease off when making love, when writing hard, as the two are often
ran by the same motor" -Hemingway
"You have to have confidence to be a champion and that is all I
ever wished to be" -Hemingway
"You shall no longer take things at second or third hand, nor look
through the eyes of the dead, nor feed on the spectres in
books,
You shall not look through my eyes either, nor take things from
me,
You shall listen to all sides and filter them from your
self."
-Walt Whitman- taught me to read and write for myself
Leaves Of Grass-Walt Whitman -I collect the different editions of
the book. A trully awesome friend got me a copy published in 1882.
The works of Poe and Yeats. Mostly non-fiction and self help
Buddhist Philosophy books The Art of Happiness The Art of War The
Wisdom of Forgiveness The Universe in a Single Atom The Tao of Jeet
Kun Do-Bruce Lee How to Expand Love with the Dalai Lama, A Movable
Feast by Hemingway, Warrior of the Light, The Hero Within by Carol.
S. Pearson, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas by Hunter S.
Thompson.
Massive Attack, Techno, Alternative, Classical, old School Jazz-
Not Kenny G, Rock-Hard Soft, Jimmy Hendrix, Ted Nugent,Sia, DJ
Harry, Hip Hop, anything's good. Brad Paisly, Kenny Chesney, and
Rascal Flats have grown on me.
Nickelback,Tool, The Fray, Jack Johnson, John Mayer, Disturbed,
Sarah McLachlan, Godsmack,Dashboard Confessional, Imogen Heap,
Massive Attack, Crystal Method, John Legend, Prodigy, Stabbing
Westward, Frank Sinatra, Fireflight, Staind, , Evanescence, DMX,
OLD EMINEM, Snoop Dog, Kanye West, James Taylor, Steve Miller Band,
Sting, Paul Oakenfold, Steppenwolf, Levi Weaver, Ragina Spector,
Maroon 5, Matt Nathonson, Matt Streif, Ray Lamontagne, Landon Pigg,
Keith Brooks, Frank Sinatra, Louis Armstrong, The Romantics- their
one hit "What I like about you" ,Daughtry, Damien Rice, Ben Harper,
Buckcherry, George Straight, Rascal Flats, Brad Paisley, Kenney
Chesney, Kieth Anderson, Tim McGraw, Chris Cagle, Jason Aldean,
Josh Kelley, Newton Faulkner, Alexi Murdoch, Gary Allen, and I
often work out and train to the theme to Last of the Mohicans-
That's how bad ass I am.
I grew up with my mom pointing at the TV the archetype of what I
was supposed to be and so it was, and is. Speaking of movies-
I'm a crazy movie fanatic and love films that change my life. I
just bought the Secret, Sicko, and Once. Anything from the
Wachowski Brothers- Matrix Films, Cult Classics, Snatch, Layer ,
Boondock Saints, Dogma, What Dreams May Come, Romantic Comedies,
The Fountain, Serendipity,Documentaries, Action Films-of course,
Musicals-except for sound of music, What the Bleep Do We
Know?
House, Boston Legal,Shark, Dexter, Grey's Anatomy, Colbert Report,
Daily Show, Studio 60, Guilty as charged of watching these with
friends and loved ones: Top Chef, American Idol, America's Next Top
Model, Project Runway- these are horrible shows but they start
great conversation.
The six things I could never do without Propose an edit
1. My best friend Jason,-awwe- he's my personal history
book\conscience I am House, and he is Wilson. I am Hobbes and he is
Calvin.
2. Art/expression all forms- whether I like it/hate it- it always
gives me something to talk about, inspires me, and sends me on a
journey
3. Communication- I love to connect with people- that's why I'm
here-Cell phone, Computer, I like my own private time, but couldn't
live in the woods all alone forever.
4. Pen and Paper- I love to write
5. An infinite supply of Buddhist philosophy and self help books.
If China had their way and destroyed all of this wonderful
knowledge and culture, I'd be screwed.
6.A place to workout. What can I say? I'm an action junkie, my body
is a tool, a temple, a playground, an amusement park, and it
requires a lot of maintenance and long lines of
people-kidding.
- I know everyone says family- I don't have that luxury :( Wish I
did.
I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit
Compassion, Love, Enlightenment, purpose and analyzing my life, my
next adventure and how I can help other people and make a living
doing so.
I spend a lot of time thinking about places to go, things to see,
and things I should be doing. I make lists to keep sane. I mix
lists so that I have something to laugh at, like on my shopping
list it may say, soy milk, kombucha, a short brunette, asparagus,
clean room, a call from you, new cape for suit, repair the
batmobile, biceps and cardio. I love it.
On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit
on random adventures, haunting cafes, going out but not to clubs,
maybe hitting some dive bars with friends, I'm spontaneous with
Fridays. I could be camping, hiking, reading/writing in a cafe,
fighting crime and injustice in the night, etc. I don't have
typical Friday nights.
The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit
I'm here for love-a long term relationship. I don't play games.
Hurting people or manipulating them to get what I want is
completely immoral and I'd rather give than take with people I am
interested in, this makes life challenging yet fun.
I am batman- sometimes, I'm out cleanin up the streets, fighting
crime and injustice, but I'm always home before dawn :P -I keep a
work uniform wherever I go and plenty of gear for insane
spontaneous adventures.
I'm the mutable earth- a virgo to a T- I can change on my own- but
trying to force me to change is like trying to move a mountain, I
must come to change on my own, appeal to my compassion and like
Jimmy Hendrix said, standin next to a mountain "I'll chop it down
with the edge of my hand". I'm willing to bend for those I love and
genuinely love me. Keyword there- is genuinely.
You should message me if Propose an edit
You are a Pisces- they often are my favorite people. hahah !- But
really, you are one of the few who will know in one look that there
is more to me than this stale rock, and will love the subtleties
that I communicate in.
You are a Taurus- lets start to be friends now because I know it
takes you forever to love somebody
You are a Capricorn- so we can have some real fun and I can make
you laugh all the time
You are a Scorpio- My best friend is a scorpio and I've been
attracted to them before knowing full well their sting, but if I
sense I'm being manipulated- I'm out.
You are a Libra- Because I've heard good things
I love genuine people who care for others and themselves. Active
people, adventurers, hikers, campers, super heroes find me and
let's hang.
I LOVE READERS, DREAMERS, ADVENTURERS, and epic Lovers. If you live
life like it was your own epic story than we should meet and grab
coffee.
Consider yourself unique/interesting.
you're beautiful, sweet, intelligent and looking for a long term
relationship
Epic hero and lover in need of adoption- will love for love and a
good home
You should message me if you are in need of a hero and man worth
writing home about.
I was raised by the TV- unfortunately, so in terms of the land of
my reality and most people's land of make believe:
I live everyday like Daniel Day Lewis in Last of the Mohicans, with
a natural earthly wisdom and compassion yet hardened with survival
skills knowing my way around a musket and tomahawk.
I have a love that can transcend time and space like Robin Williams
on What Dreams May Come
I laugh at everything, and will find a way to turn the darkest days
into a joke.
I am stubborn, all ego, and strong enough to have earned every drop
of confidence, and overfed my ego into a little arrogance.
I believe in myself enough to give the rules and world the finger
and tell them all to stick around cuz they ain't seen nothing
yet.
I am the type who would march through hell for the one I love and
bring her back no matter what the world said. - MAN, MY PROFILE IS
LONG- SORRY I'M COMPLICATED.
My personality awards
Questions He Cares About View all
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- Which of these options most closely describes what you're looking for in your next relationship?
- · Someone to come home to
- · Someone to go out with
- · Someone for tonight
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- Do you feel there are any circumstances in which a person is obligated to have sex with you?
- · Yes
- · No
- · I'm Not Sure
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- It's a warm, summer evening and it's pouring outside, would you prefer to:
- · Laugh and run in the rain, getting soaked
- · Stay inside & cuddle, watching the rain
- · Can't decide! Either one, depending!
- · Grr. Hates the rain. Hates it forever.
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- You and your serious partner have just acquired or created a baby boy. Your partner wants to circumcise him. What do you think?
- · Yes, my religion agrees
- · Sure, that's fine
- · No, I'm against it
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- Ideally, how often would you have sex?
- · Every day
- · 3 to 4 times per week
- · 1 to 2 times per week
- · less than once per week







