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thecolumnist

30 F Toronto, Ontario, CA

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, German (Okay), Japanese (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a pretty well-rounded person and I'm interested in many things. I write poetry, dance, and I love singing. I'm slowly in the process of learning guitar. I like sports too- I've played quite a bit of ultimate frisbee. I have a Master of Environmental Studies. I studied the German anti-nuclear movement and why people become involved in protest. I'm polyamorous and that's fairly important to who I am- I'm not into hierarchical terminology but I do have a primary partner now. I love food and I'm vegetarian. I get along well with lots of different people and I enjoy surrounding myself with engaged people who care about the world. I love travelling as well. I've lived in England, Japan, and briefly in Germany and I've been to 22 countries.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm doing a lot of different things. Right now I'm writing for a bit of money and a lot of pleasure. I write poetry, a blog and a book about poly, and I get paid to write articles on healthy living and eating. I also give relationship advice on the blog and I really enjoy doing that. I'm also looking for more work. I'm thinking about going back to school to get either a Master's in Social Work or a PhD in psychology. I want to work with couples and help improve people's relationships. I think there could always be more poly, and poly friendly, therapists.
I’m really good at
I'm a good conversationalist- I love talking and listening. I'm good at languages- I speak German and Japanese at an intermediate level, as I lived in both countries for a period and studied while I was there and at home. I learn pretty quickly. I'm very well organized. I'm a good dancer and writer. Expression is pretty important to me as you can tell.
The first things people usually notice about me
People often notice that I can be very direct. I've been told I have a kind face. I'm a big flirt.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books- The Time Traveller's Wife, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Beach Music (horrible title I know, but awesome book). I love reading and I always read before I go to bed. These are just some of my favourites.
Movies- When Harry Met Sally, American Beauty, Vicky Cristina Barcelona, Before Sunrise, Amelie, Inception, Memento, etc etc
Shows- Seinfeld, Fraser, The Simpsons, How I Met Your Mother, Sex and the City. Right now I'm catching up on Grey's Anatomy.
Music- I love Canadian music like Stars, Sarah Slean, Jesse Cook, Our Lady Peace. I tend to like older music. I love dancing to hip hop and cheesy 90s music. I also like jazz and folk music. My tastes are pretty eclectic.
Food- Thai, especially green curry, pretty much anything Japanese, Indian, Chinese. I'll try pretty much anything once, unless it has meat in it. I also love cooking and baking.
The six things I could never do without
Chocolate, cinnamon, bananas, friends and family, my notebook, and sex. A 7th thing would be my bike.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what exactly my purpose in life is, my next trip, how to write better, love and sex, why it's so hard to find a woman to date...
On a typical Friday night I am
spending time with friends or lovers or dancing or both. I like chilling out and going out
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a pretty open person, so you can ask me anything
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're up for crazy adventures and you're open and easygoing. I love direct people and I have no time for passive/aggressiveness. You need to be okay with poly and bonus if you have experience doing it. I've only been doing it since August 2012 and I love learning more about it. If you're out of town, you can message me, but my primary partner lives in another city, so another long distance relationship is not the best idea at the moment. I'm up for exploring connections in Toronto, whatever they may be. Please don't send me a message that says 'hot and beautiful' and please say hi columnist, otherwise I won't reply. I'm a confident person. Tell me why you messaged me of all the millions of people you could have messaged.