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thecolumnist

31 F 郑州, China

I’m looking for

  • All who like bi women
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:50pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, German (Okay), Japanese (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm from Toronto, Canada, the most multicultural city in the world. I'm a pretty well-rounded person and I'm interested in many things. Most of my favourite things in life are verbs: cycling, writing, reading, dancing, singing. I like sports too- I've played quite a bit of ultimate frisbee. I have a Master of Environmental Studies. I studied the German anti-nuclear movement and why people become involved in protest. I'm polyamorous and that's fairly important to who I am. Right now I have 1 partner and we are engaged. I love food and I'm vegetarian. I get along well with lots of different people and I enjoy surrounding myself with people who care about the world. I love travelling as well. I've lived in England, Japan, and briefly in Germany and I've been to 23 countries.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm about to start teaching ESL at a university. I write poetry. I also write a blog where I give relationship advice and I also write about polyamory on there (askmiriam.ca if you want to check it out). I'm thinking about going back to school to get a Master's in Social Work in the near future. I want to work with couples and help improve people's relationships. I think there could always be more poly, and poly friendly, therapists.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a good conversationalist- I love talking and listening. I'm good at languages- I speak German and Japanese at an intermediate level, as I lived in both countries for a period and studied while I was there and at home. I learn pretty quickly. I'm very well organized. I'm a good dancer and writer. Expression is pretty important to me as you can tell.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People often notice that I can be very direct. I've been told I have a kind face and I always look like I'm listening. I'm a big flirt.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books- The Time Traveller's Wife, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Beach Music (horrible title I know, but awesome book). I love reading and I always read before I go to bed. These are just some of my favourites.
Movies- When Harry Met Sally, American Beauty, Vicky Cristina Barcelona, Before Sunrise, Amelie, Inception, Memento, etc etc
Shows- Seinfeld, Fraser, The Simpsons, How I Met Your Mother, Sex and the City, and Grey's Anatomy.
Music- I love Canadian music like Stars, Sarah Slean, Jesse Cook, Our Lady Peace. I tend to like older music. I love dancing to hip hop and cheesy 90s music. I also like jazz and folk music. My tastes are pretty eclectic.
Food- Thai, especially green curry, pretty much anything Japanese, Indian, Chinese. I'll try pretty much anything once, unless it has meat in it. I also love cooking and baking.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Chocolate, cinnamon, bananas, friends and family, my notebook, and sex. A 7th thing would be my bike.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what exactly my purpose in life is, my next trip, how to write better, love, and relationships
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
spending time with friends or lovers or dancing or both. I like chilling out and going out. I always love a good potluck.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a pretty open person, so you can ask me anything
You should message me if
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You're up for crazy adventures and you're open and easygoing. I love direct people and I have no time for passive/aggressiveness. You need to be okay with poly and bonus if you have experience doing it. I've only been doing it since August 2012 and I love learning more about it. Please don't send me a message that says 'hot and beautiful' and please say hi columnist, otherwise I won't reply. I'm a confident person. Tell me why you messaged me of all the millions of people you could have messaged.