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thedudelacan

31 / M / straight / Single

Normal, Illinois

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am intelligent, thoughtful, and wicked.

My Self-Summary

I am a professor looking for someone special to spend my time with. I have dated around for years and now I am ready to find something that will hopefully be long lasting. I am a rather successful person but I firmly believe to be truly successful you need a counterpart in life to share that with. I am a rather laid back guy who is looking for someone who is honest, caring and willing to reciprocate. I am seeking something of relational substance and I am willing to work to develop something to become worthwhile. I will provide you with the respect and care you deserve as long as I am treated like I deserve to be.

I am looking for someone who shares my interest. Thus, if you are a right wing republican and/or agrees with Glen Beck then I am not your guy. On the other hand. If you are a a leftist, Marxist or beyond, or are detached from politics because of your staunch nihilism then I am your guy. I am not looking for the girl next door or the soccer mom. I want someone who is firm in her beliefs, or desire for the absent of a belief structure. I want someone who I can desire as much intellectually as I shall physically.

What I’m doing with my life

I teach at ISU

I’m really good at

debate, researching, bowling, being a friend, and many other things. :)

The first things people usually notice about me

my eyes maybe.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I have an eclectic taste in music. I tend to find something enjoyable in all forms of music. As for food, you may find that out if we go out. :) Most of my favorite books are academic oriented. One of my favorite fiction pieces is "The Unbearable Lightness of Being"

The six things I could never do without

desire, human interaction, hope, physical needs, the ability to express myself, some form of love.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

the nature of existence. The relationship between the self and the other. How we can engage in a more worthwhile relational ethic

On a typical Friday night I am

Depends on the Friday. Maybe you can give me something to do. :)

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

sometimes I can be a bit shy. but overall I am a rather pleasant person to be around. :)

You should message me if

you are looking for someone to treat you right who will be there for you long term.