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theduder457

29 M La Jolla, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 2
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Rather not say
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I am an outgoing guy who truly enjoys meeting new people and hearing their stories and perspectives. I love surfing, good food and drinks, travel, movies, and music.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working full time, doing grad-school, tutoring high-school kids, and surfing as much as I can
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking not cleaning, gardening, massaging (gotta give to receive), drinking, laughing, and bullshit
The first things people usually notice about me
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Your guess is better than mine
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: All Vonnegut, 'Cannery Row', Bruce Chatwin's 'Songlines', Tim Robbins 'Fierce Invalids Home from Hot Climates', Kerouac, Bukowski, Raymond Chandler, Ray Bradbury
Movies: The Godfather, The Departed, Spirited Away, Carne Tremula and most Pedro Almodovar flicks, Seven Samurai and the Magnificent Seven, Kung-Fu Hustle, House Bunny!
Music: All over, but love rock, blues, Libertines, The Kills, OCMS and Devil Makes Three to RL Burnside, the Pixies, Radiohead, classic rock from the Stones, Sabbath, to CSNY, the Dead, and Pink Floyd. Hip hop - old school Nas, Wu-tang, early west coast underground like freestyle fellowship and Hiero. Reggae - Bob Marley is a prophet and bringer of joy. Love to hear new music and see live shows.
Food: Is awesome (especially when its fresh and delicious)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The Pacific Ocean
Interesting people
water - really should be #1 - stay hydrated
My passport
Good food and drinks
Music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The intersections of sustainability and social justice, Plants, people, life, and what I am eating - and most critically how to find time to surf!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing Friday night things... Care to join?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That really depends on who is asking
You should message me if
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You want to chat and see if we might find something fun to do together!