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30 M San Jose, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 23–31
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:03am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Recovering stoic.

Here are some words, because this section is always difficult.

Deadpan. Compassion. Brainstorm. Beer. Barbecue. Cats. Dogs. Board games. Story time. Sci-fi. Fantasy. Social Commentary. Music. Shows.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working a bunch: I'm in the unheard-of position of working in a software-related field at a tech company in the South Bay.

Traveling some: paid a visit to New Zealand recently, and don't intend to stop moving about anytime soon.

Creating: one thing I want to try and focus more on, when I have the time. Specifically, books that I want to write, and board games I want to publish!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Failing to recognize awkward moments, and in so doing defuse them.
- Brainstorming. You know how Jupiter's Great Red Spot is a giant, permanent storm on the planet? It's kind of like that, but slightly less well-known. And certainly not visible using a telescope.
- Hugs, I guess.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I get the sense that this isn't something people normally comment on, but people do tend to notice that I'm relatively quiet, but sooner or later, they learn that this is because I like to be deliberate with what I say.

Physically, you'll have to tell me. My eyes are a mix of hazel and green, which does get noticed occasionally, so I've got that going for me, which is nice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Fantasy & Sci-fi primarily (G.R.R Martin, Joe Abercrombie, Peter Watts, Frank Herbert). Also some literature (Cormac McCarthy, Albert Camus, Franz Kafka).

Music: A relatively wide variety. Post-rock, indie, metal, some electronic, classical, blues, etc.

Shows: Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, Parks & Rec, Archer, It's Always Sunny
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good beer.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Cultural, biological, geological, and astronomical evolution. And stuff. Mostly stuff.

The level of sarcasm to include on a profile like this, which will register on people's sarcasm meters without coming off as forced.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Grabbing a drink with friends, seeing a show, at the gym, catching something on Netflix. Everybody says that there's no such thing as a 'typical Friday night,' but really, I've got some idea of what I like to do, and all it really takes is good company to make a good night, most times.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'd say that I'm afraid of how much I have in common with Ron Swanson, but that'd be a lie.

I'm excited about that part.
You should message me if
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You've got a great:
- joke
- story
- idea
- plan
which you'd like to share.