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thefeint

30 San Jose, CA Man, Cis Man

Man, Cis Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–31
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:01am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Recovering stoic. Functionally independent while unabashedly compassionate. I give everyone a fair shake, since I deserve one in return.

Here are some words, because this section is always difficult.

Deadpan. Brainstorm. Alcohol. Friends. Barbecue. Cats. Dogs. Board games. Tabletop games. Story time. Sci-fi. Fantasy. Social Commentary. Music. Shows.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working a bunch: I'm in the completely outlandish position of working in a software-related field at a tech company in the South Bay.

Traveling some: All over New Zealand and Iceland, Munich, Prague, up and down England & Scotland, and more. There are stories to go with each, feel free to ask.

Creating: Specifically, books to write, and board games to test & publish!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Failing to recognize awkward moments.
- Brainstorming. You know how Jupiter's Great Red Spot is a giant, permanent storm on the planet? It's kind of like that, but just slightly less well-known. And certainly not visible using a telescope.
- Hugs, I guess.
- Terrible, sarcastic advice.
- Getting stories out of people.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I get the sense that this isn't something people normally comment on, but people do tend to notice that I'm relatively quiet. Sooner or later, they learn that this is because I like to be deliberate with what I say... or at least feel like I'm being deliberate. It comes and goes.

Physically, you'll have to tell me. My eyes are a mix of hazel and green, which does get noticed occasionally, so I've got that going for me, which is nice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Fantasy & Sci-fi primarily (G.R.R Martin, Joe Abercrombie, Peter Watts, Frank Herbert). Also some literature (Cormac McCarthy, Albert Camus, Franz Kafka).

Music: A relatively wide variety. Post-rock, indie, metal, some electronic, classical, blues, etc.

Shows: Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, Parks & Rec, Archer, It's Always Sunny
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Animals.
Friends.
Music.
Maps.
Good beer.
Comedy.
Tragedy.
Skepticism.
Optimism.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Cultural, biological, geological, and astronomical evolution.
And stuff. Mostly stuff.

Whether the sarcasm on this profile will register on people's sarcasm-meters.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, for most of it.

Then: Grabbing a drink with friends, seeing a show, at the gym, catching something on Netflix. Everybody says that there's no such thing as a 'typical Friday night,' but really, I've got some idea of what I like to do, and all it really takes is good company to make a good night, most times.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'd say that I'm afraid of how much I have in common with Ron Swanson, but that'd be a lie.

I'm kind of excited about that part.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You've got a great:
- joke
- story
- idea
- plan
- plot
- other interesting three-to-five-letter word
which you'd like to share.