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thefirewithin

25 / F / straight / Single

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 2" (1.60m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Scorpio and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Russian (Fluently), Hebrew (Poorly)

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I am lively, bright, and positive.

My Self-Summary

I've got a warm-hearted, fun-loving, intelligent and quirky (yet also fairly down-to-earth, long live the paradox!) nature.

I choose to stay positive along life's ups and downs, and get along best with people who also have some optimism, passion and joie-de-vivre to them.

Also tend to like more unique individuals, artistic and musical types, and those with a more spiritual, holistic and self-aware approach to life. :)

I'm very expressive, and enjoy long, free-flowing conversations about all kinds of things.
Sincerety and warmth are important to me when dealing with others, so I always prefer balance, honesty and open communication in my life.

I like to have fun, but I'm not a big party girl. If you're looking for someone to do shots with in an overcrowded bar, then trust me, I am not your girl. If you like interesting conversation, spontaneity, and women who aren't quite like anyone else, then I just might be. ;)

I'm into exploring the city, checking out all kinds of events/festivals/venues/meetups, new places and activities...
hanging out with great friends, as well as getting out to enjoy nature and the great outdoors...

Can also enjoy just curling up at home with a good book, movie, music or an online boardgame...
And of course, got NOTHING against long nights/mornings/afternoons of dizzying passion, but only with a man truly worth getting passionate about. ;)

I also generally like people who welcome others into their lives as more then just a one-night's company, and actually take the time to build relationships with others.

That's more or less me in a nutshell.
If you think we'd get along, go ahead and drop me a note.
I may be selective, but I'm very friendly to the worthwhile types, which are easy to spot.
Carpe diem ;)

What I’m doing with my life

Navigating through to the best of my (constantly evolving) ability, filling it with enjoyable and authentic experiences, and things that make me feel happy and alive.

I like growing and expanding my life in many directions (one experience, adventure or person at a time). :)

Some of the current directions being tackled are
learning to manifest things into my life with ease, flow and joyousness, keeping enjoyably active through yoga and lots of walking,
learning to put my array of talents and skills to good use,
clarifying my goals for the future, and starting up numerous little businesses to combine into my life's work. :)

I’m really good at

Well, "really good" is in the eye of the beholder, but even by my standards, I'd say...

fun, long-ass conversations,
seeing the silver lining, the lessons and the positives in any situation, cooking, sketching, classic strategy board/card games(not chess though.),
remembering birthdays (comes with being an amature astrologer *grin*) , being affectionate,
attracting the affection of pets and the people who really know me :),
making beautiful one-on-a-kind jewelry,
art interpretation/appreciation...
and, very rarely, exhibiting foot-in-mouth syndrome at the worst possible moment :-p

I'm told I'm not a bad wordsmith either *shrug*. :)

The first things people usually notice about me

My natural red hair tends to really stand out, even from a distance. :)

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

a) My tastes are pretty spread-out and vary by mood,
but so far, I've really enjoyed works by J.D. Salinger, Agatha Christie, Sidney Sheldon, Kahlil Gibran's "The Prophet", historical novels, mysteries, self-improvement/awareness etc.
I'm currently appreciating spiritual journey-enhancing books, such as "Conversations with God" and the teachings of Abraham etc. :)

b) "Under the Tuscan sun", "Patch Adams", "Hook", "Pay it forward", "Love Actually" ... and loads of others, including russian films, and even some french films.

c) Soft, jazzy and melodic tunes, spanning from Rock to World to Classical.
But also latin rythems for dancing (which I like).

d) Well, I'm always discovering delicious new foods, so this is an infinitely growing list.

Favorite cuisines so far are Mediterranean, Greek, Thai, Chinese and Japanese (including, but not limited to sushi).
I've tried all kinds of unusual stuff (I'd pretty much try anything once ;))
and recently I've been on a healthy, holistically green kick, so while I'm not a health nut (or a vegetarian), organics and antioxident-rich foods get a big thumbs-up from me :)

The six things I could never do without

"The best things in life aren't things." ;)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Whatever engages my mind at any given moment, whether surface-level or contemplatively philosophical.
I do believe in digging deep and seeking real understanding, both of yourself and the world around you.

I'm often thinking about the kind of experiences I would like to have, places I'd like to go, new activities I'd like to try, and things I'd like to improve on or learn more about.

The environment and the World-at-large matter to me, and I'm inspired by the many different ways we can improve things, live healthier lives and make a difference in it all.

I'm also generally interested in the metaphysical;
things such as crystal and energy healing, empathy and telepathy, spiritual pursuits, and the energy and magic of all things that interact with one another.
In short, things that sometimes slip through the cracks of cold hard logic and rigid definition, but are nevertheless there to be explored by those open to the idea of them.

On a typical Friday night I am

What is this "typical" you speak of? :)

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm "typically" (lol) attracted to men with
kind eyes, a warm personality, passion, sincerity, eloquence, awareness/insight,a creative side (artistic, musical, literary etc.), a degree of comfort with their emotional side (and mine), strong arms, (nicely trimmed) goatees, (flattering) glasses, and a sexy smirk... just to give you an idea of my tastes ;)

-I know most people who say they're "looking for friendship" don't focus on that much, but I'm definitely open to meeting some great new friends, no matter where I might happen upon them, so if that's what you're interested in, please don't hesitate. :)

You should message me if

If you're a genuine, warm and intelligent person who's into really living and enjoying your life.

If you know how to appreciate good people, company and conversation.

If you live either in Toronto or close enough to be able to eventually meet up, hang out and get to know each-other in person (if we get along and feel like meeting), since that's mainly what I'm interested in (sorry long-distance people, it's not that you aren't awesome).

I'd especially like to hear from you if you can tell that we'd really connect, and/or have something important in common.
In those cases, I'd rather hear from you then not, no matter where you are situated.

Just trust that if we're meant to connect, we will. :)
Have a beautiful day! :)