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32 Brooklyn, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 22–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:45pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Art / Music / Writing
Mostly non-monogamous
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), C++ (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm pretty nice, and deeply weird. That's a pretty great thing!

Going to be honest, and say I'm not entirely certain what I want to get off this site. Definitely more looking for awesome people to be friends with more than anything else.

I have pretty limited free time, since I'm usually working full-time plus doing at least one or two other projects, but I'm also trying to consciously build in more time in my schedule to meet new people and learn new things!

Currently interested in spirituality, unexplored New York secrets, kindness, great books, things that make people cry, dance, yoga, and honesty.

(Putting this note near the top though:
Please be socially aware; racism/sexism/classism/anti-LGBTQ make you a sucky person, not just a bad date.)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
In essence, I'm finding ways to get rid of all my built-in defenses - I'm an actor in New York, just finished school doing Meisner work - I also worked for a non-profit that develops and teaches culinary education for teens, now I'm acting and freelancing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people feel at ease. Learning things quickly. Computers. Massage/Grounding/(Beginner!) Energy Work. Covering Jungian shadow with a calm demeanor. Rolling around on the floor, channeling feelings!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Science fiction.
Grotowski / Physical Theater.
Gregory Benford - Galactic Center Series; Acrobatics of the Heart by Steve Wangh
Music: Weird feminisms, blips and bleeps, kind dudes with beards
Food*: Thai, Japanese, Vietnamese are my favorites, but I'm always willing to go on food adventures.

* Cooking together with someone else (using tried or untried recipes) makes me really happy, and is usually a ton of fun. I work for a non-profit that encourages that sort of thing too :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the blocks we have that stop us from full self-expression. What other people think about and how they think about it; gender; sexuality; how to fit more deliciousness in an already packed life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Nothing's really typical! But ideally, seeing something overwhelmingly strange and real, and learning something new.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm pretty hard on myself sometimes! You can also read my public answers, a lot of private stuff is not that private there!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you delight in life. If the unexplored (geographically, mentally, existentially) gets you hot and alive. If you are creative and you want someone to play with and create things with!

Let's approach dating like fingerpainting - laughing, covered with paint, making a beautiful, life-affirming, loving mess :)