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35 M Goleta, CA

My Details

Last Online
Aug 16
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Not at all
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), Tamil (Fluently), Other (Fluently), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I come from the southern part of India. I came to the United States to study at UCSB, and I have settled here and work as a scientist.

I enjoy long, rambling, reflective conversations with friends, typically laced with humor. I try to eat healthy, and practice cooking lentils to perfection, as an art (though my sister, who has tried tasting it, holds a different opinion on this matter).

I like going on long walks and in the weekends I hike one of the trails in the local mountains. I am currently learning swing (lindy, charleston, balboa).

I find myself drawn to compassionate people with a good sense of humor and a strong sense of integrity. Looking for a down-to-earth (if you are other-worldly, that would work too), open-minded and honest person with a streak of silliness. I am looking for a committed relationship. I would like to get to know you as a friend first and we could see how it goes.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working, dancing, hiking and reading (not together though), learning the local plants of Santa Ynez mountains.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Out of curiosity, asking a lot of questions.
Fixing things and a building a DIY contraption.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I am quiet, mellow and shy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Kinds of books that I have liked: something serious like Grapes of Wrath, The Jungle, Animal farm, Walden, Essays written by Bertrand Russell, Plays by Bernard Shaw, Novels by Jane Austen; something funny and silly a la Three men in a boat, Novels by P.G.Wodehouse; something poignant such as Jane Eyre, Anna Karenina.

Movies that I have enjoyed: musicals like My fair lady, Sound of Music, Singing in the rain, O brother where art thou; romantic ones like Amelie, Before Sunrise, Before sunset, Before Midnight, Casablanca; European films like 400Blows, Rules of the game, Grand Illusion, Life is Beautiful, Bicycle thief, Smiles of a Summer night; Hitchcock's thrillers and westerns like The Good, the Bad and the Ugly; Ozu and Kurosawa films; comedies of Charlie Chaplin, Buster Keaton, Marx Brothers, animated movies like The Triplets of Belleville. And oh, Indian films - many films in different languages, too many to list.

TVshows that I like watching: Southpark, Dilbert, The Simpsons, Monty Python, Yes Minister, LouieCK, JimGaffigan, RussellPeters, George Carlin, The Big Bang Theory

Anything mellow in music - Western Classical to soft pop, Beethoven, Tchaikovsky, Chopin, The Beatles, NorahJones, NickDrake, South Indian classical, Indian movie songs, soundtracks by Ennio Morricone, Edward Sharpe and the magnetic zeroes, Adele. A few local bands- Celtic Springs, Ulysses, Shepherd's pie...

Food that I savor: Life is uncertain, eat dessert first - yes, I have a sweet tooth. People close to me know that they can bribe me with a Tiramisu or a carrot cake. On the healthy side, fruits and vegetables. I am a vegetarian, but I won't make a fuss if I eat meat accidentally.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
humor, dance, music, family, friends, hiking shoes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
you...just kidding.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching a movie, hanging out with friends, dancing.
Planning a hike.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Will have to wait until we meet in person.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
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If you like a person who is honest, kind and a bit silly in a funny way.