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theheirophant

41 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 25–50
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:36pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm pretty fun-loving, somewhat witty, and mostly adventurous. Life is too short to make the decision to be miserable. I have a fairly analytical mind, which can be a double-edged sword. I have a great sense of humor, and love to laugh. If you are terribly politically correct, you should know that I'm probably not going to be a good time for you. I delight in the inappropriate. I try to do the right thing as much as possible, and strive for consistent honesty.

I'm a bit of a dreamer, although I'm also very pragmatic. I do go to the gym, but I am not a gym-bot. I'm not afraid of a hike and love being in nature. I'm totally nerdy. I love genre movies and television, and am currently working on a comic book. I'm a little shy with new people but my default personality is outgoing. Like any human being, I'm full of contradictions. Hopefully you will find this entertaining.
What I’m doing with my life
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I've written quite a bit, and continue to do so. Some fiction, some non-fiction, a little humor. Recently I've taken to acting and Improv, and I have to say, the nicest people I've ever met seem to be Improv players. A truly loving, supportive, and authentic community has grown up around me and I am eternally grateful for that. A mentor of mine has suggested that I refer to myself as an artist, and while that moniker can make me cringe a little, I think it is probable that I need to re-program my neural network around these things and just go with it. Oh, I can sing a little too. So, there you go.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My laugh. It's a bit boisterous. Most people find it contagious, but I'm sure that some are probably off-put by it. All attempts to moderate it have been futile. So I just try to enjoy it, and you should too. If you are funny at all I am definitely going to be an ego-boost for you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Blade Runner
Alien
Excaliber
Wizards
Beautiful Thing
SLC Punk
Donnie Darko
The Incredibles

The Scar, The Bell Jar, Dry, David Sedaris, Augusten Burroughs, Voice of the Fire, Alan Moore, Warren Ellis, Grant Morrison, A Secret History, H.P. Lovecraft, The Bas-Lag trilogy, Neil Gaiman, A Confederacy of Dunces, Geek Love

NIN, Queens of the Stone Age, Sigur Ros, The Cure, Depeche Mode, Triple Cobra, Marilyn Manson, the Prodigy, David Bowie, Bjork, Janelle Monae, N.E.R.D., P.M. Dawn, Magnetic Fields, Dolly Parton, Fiona Apple, Brian Jonestown Massacre, Cocteau Twins, Tool, A Perfect Circle
You should message me if
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You have realistic expectations. It's okay to be an optimist, but usually establishing a real physical/emotional connection is like capturing lightning in a bottle. So let's just try to have fun together and see if that leads to anything naturally.