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curiouslyjeff

44 Willingboro, NJ Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 33–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:07am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Masters program
Job
Education
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Korean (Poorly), Other (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Doesn't everyone hate these things, where are you supposed to start?

Well, the basics I guess, I've never been married and don't have any kids, so I guess you'll be spared any drama there. But I come from a large family, I'm the youngest of seven, more than double number in nephews and nieces and great versions of both, and lets just say we are an ethnically diverse bunch lol, past and present, all are welcome and accepted in la mia famiglia!

I served only six years in the Marine Corp, but it was an experience beyond compare and I couldn't possibly do it justice here. I saw a lot, learned, even more, and served beside some damm fine human beings, even managed to walked away with my sanity intact lol.

I'm a even minded, and easy going kind of guy, yes I smile, except in pictures haha, and laugh easily, both at life and definitely at myself!
I'm not one for drama, games or nonsense. Or, to say it bluntly, I'm not here to blow smoke up your a**. And I expect the same in return. It's simple mutual respect oui?

I am somewhat of an idealist in my approach to love, tinged with a bit of realism, "I'm far from naive" but an idealist none the same. I embrace romance, expression and sincerity in my relationships. I look for the best in a women first, and understanding that we are all flawed creatures, I certainly am lol, look for her native personality, is she at her core, a good, decent and loving person?

And of course, I am open on the ethnic and cultural background of any potential lady. What you are, where you come from, pales in comparison to Who you are..it is far more about the content of your character with me. But I would take time to learn about your culture, language, if I'm not familiar with it already.

I believe honesty is the cornerstone of any relationship.

And believe fidelity and true heartfelt communication are the other two cornerstones of a healthy relationship.

I wouldn't say I was old fashioned, but me being me, I open doors and will pull out a chair for any women I encounter going about my day. To me it's just common courtesy. So of course the significant other I'm seeking here will receive that and more. Don't believe reports of chivalry being dead, it is an exaggeration, sick maybe but not dead.

I'm a member of the national geographic society and love geology. And, I was a boyscout so I love nature and wildlife, the mountains and the seas.
I truly believe, it is the duty of everyone of us to be far better stewards of what we all share here on this extraordinary blue marble.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Seeking balance and wisdom, enlightenment and adventure, fun times and new experiences!

And a counterpart to share all of of this with..
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being inquisitive.. it is my fundamental nature.

Communication.. I'm not the least bit shy, and have the gift of gabb, I enjoy mingling and often find my self conversing with strangers, you know people you meet waiting in lines, that kinda thing. I am very approachable, despite what might seem a serious demeanor.

Humor.. I believe laughter can work wonders, and i'm a bit of a natural clown, besides the world gives you soo much to work with!

Challenges.. Once a professor at Rutgers was called from class unexpectedly and just asked me to take over..totally put me on the spot..no warning..just here's my lesson plan and ..I'll see you later..and he walked out the door! Granted it was a class in my major and the prof was my academic advisor but still, I was some what surprised..but I got up walked down and finished the class.

Of course we spent that class reviewing, I wasn't prepared to plunge ahead, there is a difference between confidence and being cocky or foolish.
The first things people usually notice about me
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No idea..
My voice, I guess? A lot of people have told me i should be on radio or something. I certainly can't sing that's for sure, but i'm a natural comic so, I guess my voice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm a huge reader, at least two books a week, everything from sci fantasy to history to horror.

I love the Walking Dead, The Game of Thrones, American Horror Story; Coven and Freakshow,
Fallen Skies and Dr.Who, South Park, The Simpson's, and a whole range of other stuff. But I watch a lot of nature and science programs as well, Through the Wormhole and Cosmos, and of course the news, you have to stay informed.
Not that into reality shows.

Two of my favorite books and then movies were, The Hobbit and Lord of the Rings and The Lion the With and the Wardrobe was pretty good too. Of course all things Star Treck and Star Wars and Battlestar Galactica are good. Okay I admit it, i have geek tendencies. Any Jedi mistresses out there, haha, not sure about you Sith chicks..

I absolutely love music! All types, from old to new..classical and jazz to reggae, rapp and rock, literally, i'm broad minded in my musical taste I like a lot of different genres. And I am a very good dancer too.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
fine incense and candles, I love atmosphere.

Music, to relax my soul.

The companionship of family and friends.

Good food, I enjoy trying different cuisines.

Long walks, my Italian mastiff and I cover quite a few miles, I find it helps to clear my head.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Similarities rather then distinctions, as it applies to life in general and culture and ethnicity specifically. That's the anthropologist in me coming out lol.

Space-time, glaciers the oceans and all the other great scientific mysteries.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm usually hanging out with friends or chilling at home raiding the dvr.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Okay, well the first time I parachuted out of a c130 hercules, I needed a little help, some military persuasion you could say to exit the aircraft..

It came in the form of two boots, to the butt!

I'm still looking for that Army guy!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You feel you can play Mumtaz Mahal
to my Shah Johan.
or more like,
Mortica to my Gomez Addams, lol.

You have learned, as I have, that
the cover is rarely a reliable indicator of the contents, as it applies to books, people and everything else of value in life.

If you find my pictures.. easy on the eyes, I suppose that is a very good start too, lol.

More importantly, if your looking for someone who is unquestionable romantic, outgoing in nature, principled in thought, sharp of mind and has tremendous strength of character. And a funny if slightly warped sense of humor!

Because chances are, I won't be able to build for you, what Johan built for Mumtaz!

But the Addams house, hmm, that might be doable😉

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