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31 Houston, TX Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 11:18am
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 3" (1.60m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Doesn’t want kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Quiet extrovert
Hard working
Responsibly irresponsible
Cat lady
Busy body
What I’m doing with my life
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Working hard (Geologist in the environmental industry), playing harder (silly parties, festivals, burning man). Living the dream. (Never married, no kids. I plan to continue this trend into the distant future/eternity)

I'm a pretty responsible adult girl child. I have a house but I also have a ball pit that I bring camping with me, so there's that.

I'm learning how to live in one place. After years of work travel, I'm just working in town now, but I'm finding that I'm not good at staying still for very long. It's fun, but disorienting sometimes ^_^
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Almost anything that I bother to give an honest attempt at.

I'm trying to get back into some of the crafty hobbies that i kept picking up for a while, but that requires going through my garage and I'm SO LAZY when I'm not busy, so this is probably more of a someday thing.

Massages- I'm often rubbing random people's shoulders/backs/hands. My back is constantly hurting too though, so it'd be nice if I could find massage buddies or something haha.

Oh, yeah I'm also really really good at procrastination, and then getting things done under pressure. Deadlines are friends.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That my hair is probably a different color or style. I've been through most of the rainbow by now.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like music that's fun, upbeat, and puts me in a good mood. There's a lot of this across different genres. Favorites recently are Of Montreal, yelle, the orb, au revoir simone, the tuneyards, kyary pamyu pamyu. I've been listening to the cubicle fever station on Google music a lot lately for some ambient beepity boops.

I don't really watch tv but sometimes i binge on Netflix, particularly on documentaries.

My favorite food is anything I've never tried. Novelty is delicious. I do eat a lot of the same old thing a lot though. I eat a lot of super healthy foods but also too much fast food. Working on getting away from that...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Time to myself
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Finding a way to be able to continue going at max capacity without abandoning sleep altogether. (I've been running a deficit for a while)

Also the amazing communities of people (burners, tinkerers, partiers, introverts, EVERYONE) I've been running around with for a while are always on my mind. It's a beautiful thing to be a part of and watch as we all grow as individuals and as an entire generation of people who want to be active participants in this silly game of life that we all got dropped into. I'm excited to watch us all get old and wrinkly.

People are pretty great. I mean yeah as a whole, we have messed some things up pretty badly now and then, but that's a topic for another time.

In other news, I'm eternally (but not hopelessly) optimistic.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I have no typical night.... although I don't think I've turned in before sunrise on Saturday mornings in a month or two... hmmmm...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've been single for 3+ years because everything is awesome forever. I'm not really ready for that to change.

I'm not LOOKING for anything, and don't know what I want, but am I actually expected to know? That seems like a recipe for failed opportunities.

I'm often found in platonic little snuggle puddles at parties. I do what I want and love when other people do too ^_^
You should message me if
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You are already on your own fantastical voyage through life and are interested in having an adventure buddy or joining the caravan.