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thekLra

30 F Houston, TX

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:04am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Update- Nearing the end of an 8 month long field work project in Nevada. Not sure how I'll handle the transition to a stable life at home, working in the office. Might be awkward.

I'm Kira. I was named after a muppet. That should tell you all you need to know.

That's not enough? Oh, hmmm... I'll come up with a few things here

I really dislike trying to label/identify myself. We are all constantly changing, and just as soon as you may think you've figured yourself out, you've changed. Labeling myself only makes me feel like I'm trapping myself in a box in which I have to express myself only in a specific way across a variety of life experiences.

I refuse to take the intp/esfj test seriously. I am any or all of these things depending on the situation.

I'm (gray-/Demi-/a-)sexual, and somewhat gender fluid or rather, genderless-ish. Meaning, sex isn't any kind of priority in my life, and gender constructs mean nothing to me.

My status as bisexual does NOT mean that I'm interested in being your third for a night. People who initially approach me with any sexual interest automatically "friendzone" themselves (whatever that means)

I also love well-socialized nerds. I see life as a continuous science & social experiment with ever-changing variables. I'm like an introvert with an extreme social drive.

I often have trouble identifying as human, though I've cleverly disguised my inner dinosaur to move unnoticed among the general population. I'm constantly learning new human-tricks.

I tend to be stubbornly independent. I'm really not looking for a relationship, I keep this up because i don't want to miss out on new, exciting experiences, and I realize that someone might come around and change my belief that relationships are a trap. Plus, I like to e-stalk my friends when I'm bored. Isn't that what the Internet is for?

I enjoy being in (positive) situations that push me outside of my comfort zone. This is how you make your comfort zone bigger and more spacious.

I attend burner events regularly. I've gone to flipside every year since I discovered it, and this year I will finally be getting out to burning man. I usually go to 1-2 other regional events each year if I can work it out ^_^

I don't smoke, but am smoker-friendly. I get tested at work but they don't test for the best things :p

I am not a "nice girl", nor am I "wholesome" or "down to earth", though I do drink a lot of kombucha, spend a lot of time outside, and act with kindness towards everyone. I also eat a lot of bad things/drink, spend a LOT of time on the Internet, and remember that I'm the most important person in my life

AMA
What I’m doing with my life
Transitioning from working outside all the time to full time office work.

Juggling fun social activities, numerous hobbies, and general big girl responsibilities. (Work hard, play harder, create)

Constantly trying to improve myself and my life. Not always successful at this, but life takes practice.
I’m really good at
I pick up new hobbies often, but then realize I don't have the resources (time, mostly) to get really good at things.

I'm good at making things, and usually get them right the first time. I often surprise myself when my creativity takes charge.

I enjoy and am really good at cooking, but I only really do it when I have time and someone else to cook for. I almost never make the same thing twice. Recipes are for chumps.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably my colorfulness or that I'm almost always smiling and I'm pretty expressive.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like ear, eye, brain, and mouth candy.

aka I want variety, and sensory delightfulness.

I love when I hear/watch/read/eat something that's like nothing I've ever experienced before.

Adventure time/regular show
hot chip/alt-j/LCD soundsystem
Thai/Indian/dim sum/creative local restaurants
Douglas Adams/ Chris Moore

Things I'll always have a soft spot for- they might be giants, cake, chumbawamba; peanut butter and honey sandwiches; the dark crystal, neverending story, Monty python; old nicktoons, the simpsons; Roald Dahl, Piers Anthony, Alice in wonderland.

Also games. All the games. I don't have enough time for them lately, but I'm a huge fangirl for classic Nintendo, mtg, kings quest, lemmings, Arkham horror, carcasonne, catan, cards against humanity, and new games all the time. I've gone to penny arcade expo a couple times. It was a Wonderland.
The six things I could never do without
friends time
alone time
transportation
silly memes
a variety of foodstuffs
mobile internet device
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What my next step in life might be, or whether I can ever be truly happy if I just hang out with the moderate success I've achieved. What do you do once you've accomplished everything your younger self expected of you?

I spend a lot of time thinking about the past/present/future adventures that we all had/have/will have together.

I listen to a lot of NPR and think a lot about world economics/poverty/human rights, and enjoy learning and thinking about everything from all subjects, particularly sciencey things.

Why people spend SO MUCH TIME trying to identify their personality & sexuality. Just do what you want when you want, and make no apologies. It's much less stressful and gives you more time to just BE.
On a typical Friday night I am
Anywhere and everywhere. Sometimes nowhere, sometimes staying at home with my kitty and resting up for loads of fun on Saturday
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a pretty severe animal crossing addiction.

DON'T JUDGE ME!!!
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 20–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are already on your own fantastical voyage through life and are interested in having an adventure buddy or joining the caravan.