When I used to bang girls just for the macho feeling it was ok, but I never knew how awesome it can be to "make love" until I had my first proper girlfriend. I was 17.
Now I'm 23 and still wouldn't bang anything that has bangs. I like to know the person, to feel something for her and then sexy time. Not saying this is the right way, it's just I know how awesome it is with someone you love and how cold it is with someone you don't. Because if you are with someone you love and loves you back, you focus oh her, on her pleasure and comfort. And TBH her pleasure is my pleasure. + nothing is embarassing.
I'm a soft type, I know.