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thelazygardener

28 / M / Straight / Single

Chicago, Illinois

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:59pm
Ethnicity
Asian, White
Height
6′ 4″ (1.93m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Aries
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm someone who's passionate about social justice; I teach 4th grade on the west side of Chicago. I love being active outside; i play soccer, run, and work out as much as I can. I also am very intellectually curious. I'm in a book club, I love learning from others, and as much as I love being a teacher, I can't wait to be a student again in a PhD program.
What I’m doing with my life
So I get a deposit of 25 or so kids every August, and it's my job to take this amalgam of youth and somehow turn them into enlightened, inquisitive thinkers by the end of the year. Results may vary but I love it.

I'm also conducting action research around the gender gap in academic achievement. (why females tend to be much more engaged and successful in school than males)

I'm not all work and no play though. My friends are super important to me, as are my hobbies. I love to play soccer, ride my bike, drink good beer (Belgian please!), read good books, and go to the movies.
I’m really good at
Giving. Giving advice, hugs, help, etc

Also, I'm a pretty good cook. And I'm a champion Set and Cranium player. I'm also undefeated at rock, paper, scissors.
The first things people usually notice about me
that I could probably play basketball pretty well
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: James Baldwin, David Mitchell, Virginia Woolf, Ballad of Trenchmouth Taggart, Never Let Me Go, The Brief and Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao, Harry Potter, The Windup Bird Chronicle.

Movies: anything by Wong Kar Wai, Alien, Hoop Dreams, You Can Count on Me, The Station Agent, Forgetting Sarah Marshall

Food: eggplant is what I'm into right now, especially Asian eggplant, also I've discovered that flavorgasm that is chorizo
The six things I could never do without
Family and friends (of course)
Soccer
A sense of purpose in my work
My iPhone
Laughter
The Sunday Ny Times

Some extras: the bulls, arsenal football club, my glasses, good food, my rockin Honda civic
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what jokes/anecdotes I would use if I did a standup show
On a typical Friday night I am
Playing soccer, out for a drink, trying to dance with friends, sleeping, or at the movies!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm competitive when I play sports or board games. I have to win! :-)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You're passionate, compassionate, intelligent, grounded in family and friends, motivated at work, cute, and have interests in things beyond work/going out.