Ok, so this is trial number three on here... I was on here for a little while before, but never really went on any dates because the whole idea of internet dating sort of freaked me out, but I'm ready to give it a go again. I'm not really meeting "the one" in the real world, so let me give this cyber thing another try.
Let me preface my profile summary with this--take time to read this--I'm looking for a particular kind of guy and don't really want to waste my time sifting through random emails from guys who email me based solely on pictures. Anyhow, read my profile--I only want to hear from you if you have depth and share my interests. I'm so over getting short emails from guys who have nothing else to say other than, "hey sexy"...haha. The worst was an IM I got that said, "would you please have my baby?" or something to that effect. ..and then they wonder why they get blocked and no girls will talk to them. I mean, come on--on what planet does that actually work? ;)
My rant about dating on the Interwebs:
I'm sort of dipping my feet in the water here rather slowly, as I'm skeptical about the whole online dating thing. I do miss the good old days when you could spot someone from across the room, exchange a glance & a smile, then awkwardly stagger over to each other and try to think of something witty to say on the fly...then they either open their mouth and you are amazed at how awesome they are...or you learn instantly that they are in fact a complete idiot and it only went as far as looks. Then you try to figure out how to retreat, looking at your phone, hoping it will ring...then you pretend you get a text and say, "OMG--I'm so sorry, but my friend is having issues in the restroom...I must go...nice meeting you...". haha. ...or it could go the other way, you're totally enthralled after that initial meeting and you end up having a whirlwind of a romance before realizing you have nothing in common at all. Ok, ok...maybe the Internet dating thing is a good idea. You can at least grasp a persons likes & dislikes and sort of compare things to see if you are compatible ahead of time. Then again, people lie.
And now, back to our regularly scheduled program... ;)
Overall, I am fun loving, free spirited and a tad bit quirky (ok, "tad bit" is sort of an understatement). I would like to meet someone who is like me--open to all kinds of music (except for country or death metal...lol) and has an all around passion for life! No close minded guys need apply. I want someone just as diverse as I am, nothing less. I want someone who doesn't care what people think and can make an ass of himself for the fun of it, but knows when and where to be serious. I want to find someone to go camping with, dancing with, a workout buddy, a partner in crime, the yin to my yang, the sugar for my coffee...oh wait, I don't drink coffee...well, I'll be the sugar for your coffee then. ...someone to go out on the town with or just lounge around on a rainy day with a good movie or conversation. I want to find the person I can do everything or absolutely nothing with and still have fun (keep in mind, he should also have his own life outside of our relationship...that is definitely important to me). Most of all, I want to think that the sun shines out this person's, well for lack of a better word--tushy (do they screen this thing??), and vice versa. In my eyes, he will be the sun and the moon...and in his eyes, I'll be everything in between. Ok, maybe this is asking for too much in LA, but I've never been one to settle. To me settling just isn't worth it--I love my life way too much to waste it with the wrong people. :) I would be happier single for the rest of my life as long as I didn't just settle for any warm body...I'm looking for someone who also feels the same.