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themovements

27 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:30am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Cancer
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
words are deceptive
you glean the most from photos
let's go on a walk

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[have you seen 'scenes from a marriage'?]

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GSLwYrPbuts
What I’m doing with my life
Working nonstop.
Figuring out abstraction.
Mentally inserting serial commas.
Walking.
Theorizing.
Aging.
Reading the dictionary.
I’m really good at
Being cold. Always. If I had a superpower born from mutation it would be that - being cold. And I dislike being cold greatly; deeply. Once I went to the desert, and even though it was 105 degrees, I remember now being cold there. I hiked into a canyon with a backpack full of film, a camera bag, a tripod, a large-format camera, and one standard water bottle, sweat so profusely without any shade I wondered if I was going to pass out and never be heard from again, and I still remember only the cold. So it is.

Making whipped cream without an automatic blender. Naming a select few plants and flowers. Having staring competitions with dogs as I walk by them (and subtly ignoring their owners).

Thinking that it is ludicrous that OkCupid asks for incomes in either direction of the economic spectrum as a detail with which one should cast judgement.

Planning out my next breakfast as I'm falling asleep.

Dancing when I have a lot of space. As in preferably a warehouse.
The first things people usually notice about me
I
Am
A
White
Man

IAAWM.

(This is a moot point - I don't think I would ever ask anyone this.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Some of the music, somewhere between ambient, wailing women, classical, punk, '50s heartbreak, '90s hookup, scorned people, people in love, descriptions of grass turning from gray to gold, those trumpets blaring next to french horns as the choir launches into war, radiohead's cover of can's the thief, that guitar strumming the same note from the beginning of the song to the end, kate bush, drum-beating funk-blasting ass-shaking neo-disco, badu love.

All of the books.
All of them.
The last great one:
"Autobiography of Red" by Anne Carson
The current great one:
"Swann's Way" by Marcel Proust
Also currently:
"Close to the Knives" by David Wojnarowicz

The most recent movies I saw and loved:
Tampopo
Another Earth
Melancholia
Don't Look Now
Martha Marcy May Marlene
Mandela
Frances
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The constants:
The Shining (always, but scarier as I get older)
Constantine (any time, any day)
Spirited Away (for my inner sentimental teenage girl; always)
Twin Peaks

Food:
Food.
I just bought the fanciest knife in town. This has been a dream of mine for a decade. It was a floor model from a closing Williams-Sonoma. It was 70% off. Do you want to watch me slice onions thinner than your fingernail? 'Cause I'll do it.
The six things I could never do without
The ability to laugh at myself.
(These are the six words I could never do without.)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was such an intense nerd for so many years that I had to abandon the lifestyle completely.
I laugh through all emotions. I have laughed so hard and inappropriately I have been kicked out of classes from middle school through college.
Most of my photos aren't smiling because to me smiling at a camera feels like baring one's teeth; it's false. It doesn't mean I'm not content, just that arbitrary smiling feels weird. I've learned how to do it for family photos, at least.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 20–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex