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thenewRenaissan

35 / M / straight / Single

Cranston, Rhode Island

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Pets
Languages
English

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I am romantic, compassionate, and creative.

My Self-Summary

Hello and thank you for visiting my profile page. Let me start off to by saying that I am an old fashioned kind of guy with a modern view of the world. To elaborate a bit, I guess you could say that I was brought up right. I am the type of person that is always willing to lend a helping hand to someone in need. My heart is kind, my soul is compassionate, my ears are open, and my words are comforting. I believe in the golden rule. I believe in equality in all forms, but please do not take offence to an act of chivalry. I also consider myself to be a very considerate individual. I am also aware of myself, though I do not like to boast. For a wise person once told me that the difference between confidence and arrogance is often misjudged, and rarely understood. A confident person tends to be quiet upon certain topics, whereas an arrogant person tends to become pompous and loud trying to mask their insecurities.

As for my interests, I like to think of myself as a creative person. I am involved in the local independent moviescene, and am currently working on a few different projects. I am a writer, composer, actor, and musician. I am a supporter of the arts, and enjoy listening to local musicians play. One down side to my creativity is that at times I have to be careful, because I love using metaphors. I enjoy traveling, though currently am searching for a travel partner. To top it off, I am also a romantic.

What I’m doing with my life

I am currently in the process of reinventing myself. It seems that all of my life has been dictated trying to make everyone else happy, well it is now my time. I am currently concentrating on my writing, and composing talents. I am involved in the local independent movie scene, and would like to expand to the larger stage. I do realize that a steady income is needed, and that is what my computer background takes care of.

I’m really good at

giving massage, playing music on one of my instruments, and using my imagination.

The first things people usually notice about me

has to be my hazel eyes.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Great Expectations, Les Misérables, Harry Potter Series, All the Stars Came Out That Night, The Girl Who Loved Tom Gordon

Movies: Star Wars Saga, Love Actually, Batman Begins & Dark Knight, Definitely Maybe, The Godfather Trilogy, Field of Dreams, Unbreakable, Exotica, Fantasia, Dan in Real Life, Matrix, and way too many more to mention.

Music: Billy Joel, Modest P. Mussorgsky, Aerosmith, Wagner, Debussy, John Williams, Liszt, Bizet, Kelly Clarkson (Yup, I said it), David Bowie, Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, Lisa Lobe (Yup, I said that too), Shannon Corey (You will know that name soon enough), Averill Levine, Blues Traveler, I can go on all night. Though sorry, no Country.

Food: Italian, BBQ, Chinese, Mexican, Ice Cream, Sweets!!!!! Not a fan of Seafood, or Eggs.

The six things I could never do without

1 Family
2 Friends
3 Food
4 Music
5 Movies
6 Great place to take a walk

I spend a lot of time thinking about

my place in the world, and what the future will be like.

On a typical Friday night I am

spending time with friends, seeing a movie, home writing, going out to dinner, going to a party…it just depends on what the day.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

is, hmmm. Why don't you just ask.

You should message me if

you are a woman with these qualities: Intelligence, sweetness, compassionate, and sense of individuality are characteristics that I find appealing. She does not have to be perfect, heaven knows that no one is perfect; she just has to be able to enjoy what life has to offer. Also, I hope that she is comfortable in jeans and a t-shirt as well as getting all dressed up for a night on the town. With me there is ample opportunity to get dressed up too. Not to elaborate too much, but I have my suits and tux on stand by. I guess you could say I attend my share of social events. Though the one thing that I feel is most important about my match is that I would like for her to be a friend first and foremost. I hope that this is not too much to ask for. If most of this sounds like you, we are on the right track and would love to hear from you. Talk to you soon,