Hi!
This is an odd site, I don't like the dire predictions of being 'enemies' for example.

It seems like a long profile gets the most interest, so be prepared.
First, I'm sure that profiles mean nothing in regards to compatibility, but are great to determine incompatibility. So I'll start upbeat with what you'd like about me, but mention some dealbreakers.

The good - very healthy, intelligent, funny, hard working, kind hearted, great at relationships. I'm also OVER my childhood. I'm able to reach out, to love and give of myself with ease. The biggest compliment that I've received in relationships is that I feel safe and comfortable to be with.

To make it easier and more courteous, I'll throw out things about me first that will quickly make many of you click away, then I'll mention what I'm not looking for, THEN finally a few of the reasons why you should snatch me up.

So, please read on until you find a dealbreaker, or can't resist emailing.

I've been hypnotized through past-lives. (Wow! 90% of you are gone, but in the other 10% is the lady that I seek ...) Next is the fact that I talk about things like that.

Some consider me goofy, some dislike that I pay attention to everything that they say (which makes a person more responsible for their words). Sometimes I'm seen as too nice, sometimes seemingly arrogant, sometimes too high energy, too open, too direct. I can be outgoing when it's fun, quiet and comforting when needed.

I upset one coffee date by turning off the tv in the coffee shop (to hear her better, no one else was in the shop, and her back was towards it, go figure!). Many don't like long emails. My ability to be personal, like this writing, threatens some people.

A dealbreaker for me - If you think it's ok to start emailing and making friends, then suddenly stop for no apparent reason, that seems rude. If your profile goes on and on about how you don't play games - then you probably do

Seeking- sense of humor, down to earth, quick witted. Physically active and fit enough to keep up - I'm high energy and very active. Secure in who you are - can you say that you love yourself?

Still here? Cool ....

I study and practice a fun, happy, giving, spiritual life. I'm direct and honest, non-judgmental, volunteer at a group home, love animals, and make a lot of jokes.

I don't have the bad attributes that you are avoiding - I'm courteous (please don't take that as boring) open doors, bring flowers, am not jealous of your kids or ex husband, I have never said a bad thing about my ex-wife (nothing bad to say anyway), I treat waitstaff well and tip very well.

I'm a thinker and a do-er, no television, lots of books. I get outside with my dog several times a day, drive a convertible all summer. I am self employed, and am starting a new small business, and have plans for others.

I don't gossip or waste time with pettiness. I DO see the magic in life, in people, in my dog. I can see the magic in you. I'm genuinely warm and caring, enjoyable and comfortable to be with. I don't have anything to prove, and am very comfortable- and happy with myself. At the group home holiday dance parties, I always throw my hands in the air and jump around when that song that goes "Clap your hands now, Shout! everybody!".

I'm always stimulating, challenging, seeking out new experience. You can see that I'm more expressive than most men, if that's a turn-on then email me for more.

I'm a dreamer, a lover, a thinker .... and so are you.

Things are changing fast, accelerating like never before. Deja-vu, intuition, synchronicity - all happening more and more. Meeting new people, people leaving. Hard to explain. My computer consulting work is picking up, I have a new business to start - but if behind every great man is a (greater) woman, where is she??

Loving, listening, teaching, handling trouble, back rubs, letting other people blossom and shine.

Eyes, smile, sense of humor

Authors - Jane Roberts, Chopra, I have many books but am drawing a blank.
Movies - Young Frankenstein should give you a clue.
All kinds of music.

I've heard some stories about rude men out here, if you want to get out with a guy that won't pull any stupid stuff, and are turned on by thinking, kindness, laughter and intelligence then send a note.
I don't have to be "The One" in order to get out for a coffee, and neither do you. We should be able to be adults, talk a little, and who knows what life has in store.