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thentherewasbear

51 / M / straight / Single

Ann Arbor, Michigan

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
Other
Height
6' 4" (1.93m).
Body Type
Jacked
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Kids
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am large, adventurous, and quite interesting.

My Self-Summary

I have lived life by the seat of the pants for so long that it seems abnormal to do anything else. But I am always willing to try something different if I see any merit in it. I have a lot of friends who care about me and it makes a difference in my life. I am a gregarious loner, A settled drifter, an honorable pirate and an optimistic pessimist.

I like people who are fun-loving and not so normal. What is normal anyways! I like playing darts, some video games, drinking, smoking, raising hell and having a generally good time.

I don't mind people who speak their mind, long as it isn't a little one. In other words, speak your mind, fine, but be respectful of others in the doing.

I like to go on an occasional extended road trip to whoknowswhere and whereverthehelltheroadtakesme.

I enjoy Rainbow Family National Gatherings and if you've ever been to one, you'll know what I am talking about. Turtle Soup Kitchen has been all over the U.S. and fed thousands. I hear the next national is going to be somewhere in Appalachia. Nice!

I don't usually like sites like this, but a friend of mine is on this site and I actually saw some people that looked kinda cool on it. So, I am always open to giving things a chance or two.

I am nothing special, but that could change. Looking for friends and lovers and at the very least, interesting people to get to know.

What I’m doing with my life

Working as a stagehand and trying not to take the whole "life" thing too seriously.

I’m really good at

Writing, speaking, reading, drinking, playing, sleeping & making friends.

The first things people usually notice about me

Is that I am a large man with a gentle disposition and a fairly keen intellect.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I work in the entertainment industry, not really too specialized in the music I listen to. Movies, well, I don't often see movies unless I am out with a date or friend. Books? Joseph Heller 'God Knows', Leon Uris' 'Trinity' & 'Redemption', Richard Bach's 'illusions: the adventures of a reluctant messiah' Hess's 'Siddartha', 'Company K' by William March, Ranier Maria Rilke's 'book of the hour of prayer', 'book of images' & 'letters to a young poet', history books of all kinds, old encyclopedias and non-fiction books. I will read almost anything if I am bored enough. But I don't read nearly as much as I used to.

The six things I could never do without

Life, Love, Liberty, Purpose, Choice, Spirit.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

what I want to do next, where, when, why, & how.

On a typical Friday night I am

Either working a show somewhere, sleeping in preparation for working a show, having fun drinking and socializing with friends at my favorite dive bar in Ann Arbor, (of which there is truly only one!) or hanging out with friends and housemates at home.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I firmly believe in keeping secrets and not sharing information that others have confided. You want to know my secrets, show yourself worthy of them. You want to know what someone else has discussed with me; fat chance.

You should message me if

You aren't squeamish and are looking for someone different. I am a great man to know. I am human, not 'mr. right'. I am nothing special, but I am still unique and can certainly be good for you.