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24 F Minneapolis, MN

My Details

Last Online
Jul 23
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Well, I've been just totally inundated with messages. Sorry if I don't get back to you, or if it takes a while. I'm sure you're pretty baller :)(Unless you're that rando Poland guy who deleted your account because I dared call you out on your bullshit misogyny. Go boil your head.) Honestly though, there's a pretty good chance your message will languish for eternity in my inbox unless I already know you.

If you're into Myers-Briggs, I'm an INTP. I think that description is a pretty good way to get a general handle on me, but obviously people don't fit into tidy little categories like that.

I'm primarily but not exclusively attracted to masculine-presenting people. Female masculinity is particularly hot to me, but it's sometimes tricky to find masculine women, so I usually end up crushing on dudes.

I'm currently in an open/poly relationship with a stellar dude. I'm open to dating and wherever that might lead, but I'm not really actively looking for anything.
What I’m doing with my life
Just finished college, and realizing that I have no idea what to do with myself after work now that there's no homework. I'm planning on traveling for a year in the next couple years, and then going on to some type of graduate school.
I’m really good at
Listening. I'm not so good at talking, but I get along ok with occasional prompting in the form of questions. I'd like to think that I'm also pretty good at providing clarity to the topic of conversation at hand by teasing out the real problems happening, even if I'm not so good at setting up conversations or going on about a topic at length. Unless you pick the right topics. I'll leave you to figure out what those are.

I don't usually like to toot my own horn, but I'm a damn fine classical musician. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
Either my short hair or my new conch piercing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: I love classical music. Particular favorites of mine are Shostakovich, Prokofiev, Hindemith, Grainger, and Mahler. I also majorly <3 medieval music. I have been finding a new appreciation for baroque, and even more recently classical, however. David Bowie is a small obsession. If I could steal someone's voice, I'd go with Annie Lennox. Secretly I like metal, although I don't really know what's going on. Basically I'm open to a lot of stuff, although I've never been able to get into punk. If you have suggestions for rectifying that, let me know what they are.

Movies: Anyone I'm remotely close to is required to watch the movie "Labyrinth" at some point. I like Wes Anderson and the Coen Brothers, but they both work best in small doses.

Books: I love Neil Gaiman. I read the Dune series to death when I was younger. I'm also into academic stuff, particularly in the areas of sexuality, gender, and religion.
The six things I could never do without
-live cats
-virtual cats
-my instruments
-alone time
-teh internetz
-book lernin' :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Sexuality, primarily. I also like gender stuff and religion stuff (just finished a religion major). I'm becoming more comfortable thinking about class and race issues as well. Basically humanities-y stuff.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably in watching a movie. I'm kind of lame like that. Just generally don't do well with too many people. I'm more into sedate type activities generally, although I can be convinced to do actually fun stuff once in a while.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm on fet. If you don't know what that is, chances are we're not a good match. If you're going to use the fact that you're on there too as a reason we should chat, please send me your username if it's different than your OKC username.

Not really private, but I actually have a slight preference for people who are about the same height as me (but still sending love to tall and short folks!). I know it's supposed to be a big deal if you're a guy and a lady is the same height as or taller than you, but fuck it, I like to look at your face. I'm like 5'7" or 5'8" depending on whatever I feel like being at any given moment, so come join the party.

I don't shave. But this is public knowledge every time I'm not wearing long sleeves.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 22–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're not a pretentious ass about religious issues. And yes, both religious and non-religious people can be asses, and both religious and non-religious people can be sensitive. No, science and reason aren't going to resolve all issues (although they are good and have their uses) and thinking that they will is just another form of absolutism. If you think you've got it all figured out, go boil your head.

You can understand why initiating a conversation with a random woman on the internet by calling them a diminutive pet name like "babe" or "honey" might be offensive to them. Yes, this is a dating site. Yes, I still expect to be treated as a full human being rather than just a thing with a vagina. Yes, I'm looking at you, rando Poland guy who deleted your account because I dared call you out on your bullshit misogyny. Go boil your head. (Let's play a new game! You ignore this, I block you. Fun, fun.)