Well, I've been just totally inundated with messages. Sorry if I don't get back to you, or if it takes a while. I'm sure you're pretty baller :)

If you're into Myers-Briggs, I'm an INTP. I think that description is a pretty good way to get a general handle on me, but obviously people don't fit into tidy little categories like that.

I'm primarily but not exclusively attracted to masculine-presenting people. Female masculinity is particularly hot to me, but it's sometimes tricky to find masculine women, so I usually end up crushing on dudes.

Just finished college, and realizing that I have no idea what to do with myself after work now that there's no homework. I'm planning on traveling for a year in the next couple years, and then going on to some type of graduate school.

Listening. I'm not so good at talking, but I get along ok with occasional prompting in the form of questions. I'd like to think that I'm also pretty good at providing clarity to the topic of conversation at hand by teasing out the real problems happening, even if I'm not so good at setting up conversations or going on about a topic at length. Unless you pick the right topics. I'll leave you to figure out what those are.

I don't usually like to toot my own horn, but I'm a damn fine classical musician. :)

Either my short hair or my new conch piercing.

Music: I love classical music. Particular favorites of mine are Shostakovich, Prokofiev, Hindemith, Grainger, and Mahler. I also majorly <3 medieval music. I have been finding a new appreciation for baroque, and even more recently classical, however. David Bowie is a small obsession. If I could steal someone's voice, I'd go with Annie Lennox. Secretly I like metal, although I don't really know what's going on. Basically I'm open to a lot of stuff, although I've never been able to get into punk. If you have suggestions for rectifying that, let me know what they are.

Movies: Anyone I'm remotely close to is required to watch the movie "Labyrinth" at some point. I like Wes Anderson and the Coen Brothers, but they both work best in small doses.

Books: I love Neil Gaiman. I read the Dune series to death when I was younger. I'm also into academic stuff, particularly in the areas of sexuality, gender, and religion.

-live cats
-virtual cats
-my instruments
-alone time
-teh internetz
-book lernin' :)

Sexuality, primarily. I also like gender stuff and religion stuff (just finished a religion major). I'm becoming more comfortable thinking about class and race issues as well. Basically humanities-y stuff.

Probably in watching a movie. I'm kind of lame like that. Just generally don't do well with too many people. I'm more into sedate type activities generally, although I can be convinced to do actually fun stuff once in a while.

I'm on fet. If you don't know what that is, chances are we're not a good match.

Not really private, but I actually have a slight preference for people who are about the same height as me (but still sending love to tall and short folks!). I know it's supposed to be a big deal if you're a guy and a lady is the same height as or taller than you, but fuck it, I like to look at your face. I'm like 5'7" or 5'8" depending on whatever I feel like being at any given moment, so come join the party.

I don't shave. But this is public knowledge every time I'm not wearing long sleeves.

You're not a pretentious ass about religious issues. And yes, both religious and non-religious people can be asses, and both religious and non-religious people can be sensitive. No, science and reason aren't going to resolve all issues (although they are good and have their uses) and thinking that they will is just another form of absolutism. If you think you've got it all figured out, go boil your head.