theonewhowill
34 Chapel Hill, NC
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My self-summary
Currently i am looking for a strong, accomplished, dominant Lady who knows what she wants and does not shy away from grabbing it. I'll be honest, I'm looking for someone interesting, to indulge in a female led relation.

This doesn't mean just sex, yes sex could be a part of the equation but I'm looking for the mental aspects for sensual pleasure.

This also doesn't mean that kink will be everything in the relationship, We do need to have common interests and common things to talk about. I would like to be with someone who can challenge my mind... & in turn be challenged herself.

A bit about me... I am a smart, well traveled, very well educated (PhD) Male who has an Alpha personality in vanilla life but in my private life i appreciate female domination. I am attentive and polite and a decently well conversationalist (i love talking to people who know things more than their immediate surroundings). I am pretty adventurous in real life and yearn for different and unique experiences. I like to touch, smell, see... in short to indulge & explore all that my senses can... some say "i think therefore i am" for me it'll be "i perceive therefore i am". In other words i can be described as a sensuous person, who likes stimulation of all the senses (most importantly, the mind).
What I’m doing with my life
Doing research on motivation & health behavior... Currently working at a local hospital...
Trying to find out what motivates me ;)
Drinking coffee...
I’m really good at
Everything with my mouth... talking, eating... etc.
An Australian kiss (just like a French kiss... but down under)
The first things people usually notice about me
My ethinicity
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Too many to mention especially books... You can say I'm a book slut... among other types...
The six things I could never do without
Currently there are much more than six things... but my aim is to reduce them to almost nothing (except the physiologically necessary)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
42

Maya... what is really real?

Quantum physics...

Advaita Vedanta
On a typical Friday night I am
Unfortunately still at work... I rarely get Friday evenings free. But ask me about my Saturday nights...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ask me about my fetlife profile.
You should message me if
You could take control.
You want to try something challenging
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