Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A few months ago I admitted to a friend that I was bisexual, and he
reflexively responded with "so which do you prefer?" He looked
quite perplexed when I reacted in silent contemplation--apparently
the stereotype asserts that bisexuals invariably have a preference,
yet after giving it some thought I had to admit that I didn't know.
I am bias because I have only dated girls; they're much easier to
pursue because I can consider ninety percent of the female
population instead of the narrow 10 percent of gay or bisexual
guys. But for the sake of investigation, it would be stupid not to
at least try dating a guy. Because most guys are creeped out by
unpredictable sexual advances (since most are straight), this has
been an extremely frustrating and futile effort. So after jumping
on the match.com bandwagon and spending an unnecessary $60, I
gained some common sense and came here. Although I am primarily
interested in meeting a male partner for the reasons mentioned, I
am open to meeting girls online as well.
I have been described by some as a hippy: I'm a down-to-earth
treehugger who prefers walking barefoot and would rather spend a
night in front of a fire than a TV screen. I am technologically
obsolete (I would prefer to spend time doing something personally
or socially engaging over losing myself in a screen). I love
nature--I'm currently majoring in botany--and would rather indulge
in a wholesome meal than poison my body with the processed shit
that pervades most of the shelves at local grocery stores. I love
Eastern philosophy and religions, but am tolerant and interested in
any religious practice. I meditate and enjoy burning incense, I'm
420 friendly (but can easily abstain at the will of any
disapproving partner). I love concerts and tiedye... hippy is
probably a fitting label. That said, I will happily compromise
occasionally and settle down for a movie or some inside time if
it's what my partner enjoys. I am open and nonjudgmental.
I'd also like to find someone who'd be willing to kick it with my
friends in addition to any alone time. I have awesome friends who
are just as open, tolerant and lighthearted as I am.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at forgiving a person for his/her perceived vices,
shortcomings, disrespect etc. and acknowledging that this behavior
is almost always rooted in something circumstantial that I don't
I'm musically talented, specifically playing by ear. Discerning
chord progressions in songs, adding different melodies to the chord
I'm athletic but don't have time to play sports regularly anymore.
Presumably I retain some of those skills.
Sometimes my common sense seems inadequate but I allegedly
compensate for this with a type of "wisdom." I don't think she
believes in reincarnation, but I am often regarded as an "old soul"
by my mom
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