### I should state from the outset that I don't want kids. Also, if you already have kids, I'm sure they're great and you're a wonderful mother but again, I'm not the guy for you. ###
Quietly awesome guy (not in a big headed way, I'm just good at some stuff and a nice person): I'm monogamous but I'm looking for a bossy ethically non-monogamous girl who wants a primary relationship with a guy that will focus his attention on your happiness/pleasure and that you can boss around. It's complex so feel free to ask...
I identify essentially as an intellectual/emotional submissive cuckold (not into beatings or being vacuum packed and kept under the stairs etc...) who wants to share in your experiences with others and be the guy you come home to. I'm into kink and have a number of fetishes I enjoy Like I said, it's complicated so do ask.
I should also clarify that play partners are also welcome.
sound technician by trade for conferences and events, musician by passion, web developer by sideline business/interest, nerd, photographer and general creative type with tattoos. INTJ if you put any stock in these things...
Not really into the whole travelling thing, (controversial, I know...); I like North America/Canada and would happily live over there but I have no urge to go to some developing country to sit on a beach with some trust fund hippies called Tarquin and Echinacea listening to them "finding themselves".
General geek really. A good listener/hugger/sofa buddy and handy with computers, extensive TV/Video/Music collection on an HDD that you're more than welcome to rinse for all it's goodies (this is the digital equivalent of bribing you with cake...)
I do have a type:
- petite (either skinny or curvy but most definitely short),
- younger than me, generally under 35
- glasses a plus :D
- tattoos/piercings a bonus
- pale skin (the paler the better, points for being a cute albino!)
- funny women. Apparently many guys are put off by a woman that cracks all the gags but I love it. Make me laugh and I'm all yours.
- kinky/perverted, into fetish fun
I'm not a particularly outdoorsy person; if you're looking for a country walks/camping buddy then I'm not for you... I like the buzz and bustle of the city and don't like to be too far out of 24hr bus country!
I'm intelligent, kind, attentive, funny in a Blackadder kind of way, generous, not jealous, open minded, tall, tattooed and geeky. I enjoy the company of people that can teach me new things and that want to learn stuff from me. Smart, curious women are sexy women.