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thepeanutbuddah

33 / M / straight / Single

London, United Kingdom

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White
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5' 11" (1.80m).
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New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Drugs
Religion
Buddhism and laughing about it
Sign
Pisces but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am musical, extroverted, and passionate.

My Self-Summary

I love music, film, literature and intellectual conversation almost as much as I love parties, wine, talking complete bollocks and making a tit of myself in public. I am secretly really shy, but nobody believes me as I spend a lot of my life on stages playing music in various bands, but then everybody is secretly shy aren't they?

I believe that life is too short to do anything that doesn't make you feel vital and alive; I want to wake up every morning and bounce out of bed excited about the day ahead. The minute my job becomes a chore, I always want to seek out something more fulfilling...and do.

I love travelling and have spent literally years wandering all over the world. I'm never happier than when I know I can leave work life behind for a bit, hit the road with some musical instruments and meet new people in new and exciting places.

What I’m doing with my life

I do a bunch of things: the bill paying comes from working in Television and Film post-production, the fun (and the odd bit of cash) comes from playing in bands and shows. I play the piano, bass and guitar, but mostly piano at festivals, pubs and corporate gigs all over the country and occasionally abroad.

I used to work as a Lecturer and Course Leader in education, and nowadays I work as an education consultant for colleges and universities running media courses, designing their new degrees for them.

In the last year I've made a good start on a novel, but I think it may be quite a long time till I finish it.

I’m really good at

Music is my thing, but I'm pretty good at cooking and highly skilled at the art of conversation.

The first things people usually notice about me

My accent: I'm Scottish. I would imagine the next thing they would notice is my shaved head, though I don't look like some sort of Scottish thug or anything. I don't think I do anyway.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I consume a broad range of cultural products, ta very much. I love the work of people like Will Self, Jonathan Coe, Julian Barnes and Ian McEwan but I also love your Roddy Doyle's, Nick Hornby and Dickens. Don't ever ask me to read any bloody Jane Austen OR Lord of the Rings though.

Film wise I like the usual geek-boy films: Cohen Brothers, Darren Aronofsky anything written by Charlie Kaufman. I'm actually quite partial to a good rom-com. Maybe not Bridget Jones, but certainly Notting Hill, but I'll also happily settle down to a Bruckheimer action film with bugger all plot and excessive pyrotechnics. It all depends on the evening really. Sometimes thinking is good, sometimes optional.

I love Music from every genre. I studied classical music at University and DJd dance music for years. Nowadays I just love anything interesting. In saying that (there's a theme here) I know no shame and am just as into big cheesy sing-along tunes as I am weird esoteric music.

I love cooking, for some reason all my male friends tend to be the one's who do the cooking in relationships. I cook lots of Thai, I love trad. French when I'm out of an evening, also love your simple British comfort food like Shepherd's Pies and Bangers and Mash. Anything really - love to cook for large groups.

The six things I could never do without

Piano, Bass, Guitar, Laptop, Hat, Bed

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Music, existence, happiness, food, location.

On a typical Friday night I am

Very rarely at home. Gigs, festivals, concerts, parties. Though I do actually LOVE when I get a Friday at home with wine film and food.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Why would I admit a private thing to just ANYBODY? I prefer to carefully choose the recipients of my most private thoughts.

You should message me if

You're looking for an unflinching companion on your adventures.