theperkij
44 Canberra, Australia
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My self-summary
The good things I’ve been told about me…
- I’m affectionate, funny, thoughtful, smart, attentive, caring & calming!
- I’m an awesome dad & my kids are lucky to have me
- I smell good (This one’s weird, does it mean most men smell bad?)
- Things I don’t like hearing but assume are good… I’m neat, nice, reliable & dependable. Geez I sound boring! …but this is the G rated version of me ;-) Lol

Please ignore my age! I feel much closer to something like 32, I’ve dated younger & older and think a successful relationship has everything to do about chemistry, mental maturity, where we are in life & how we communicate… not a number.

If you broke up last week or are ‘dipping your toe in the water’ please move on. I’ve been divorced for 7 years & don’t want casual or convenient… I’m not looking to get married next week either… I’m just looking for a connection & to go from there.

My ideal partner will challenge me and make me want to be a better person for them… I will certainly challenge you and your ideas and hope you would want to be better person for me as well. My ideal partner will also own dresses and like getting ‘girled up’ and going out on occasion.

In most aspects of my life I’m an overachiever so I am a little bit different, but lets face it… profiles are hard! So if you’re looking for an interesting, loyal guy that will open the car door for you, maybe we should have a drink sometime :-) xo
What I’m doing with my life
Hmmm, this could get deep!
Right now I'm answering more questions about dating than I thought could ever be asked... seriously!
I’m really good at
Tennis... I think
Being a dad... I hope
World champion at Rummikub and jnr monopoly
A jack of all trades... a master of none!
The first things people usually notice about me
I've never asked... please tell me :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Is there a character limit to this section?
Consider music to be food for the soul... love, no LOVE:
Sara Bareilles, Toby Lightman, David Gray, Tristan Prettyman, John Mayer, Jason Mraz, Pricilla Ahn, Dave Barns, Eric Hutchinson... the list goes on & on
LOVE food and flavours.
The six things I could never do without
My toothbrush (c'mon, without it no one would want to be around us... and that would just be lonely)
My Ipod and stereo
Love & affection
The sun, air and food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where to now...
The meaning of life...
What is there to eat in the cupboard...

If I'm honest that last one takes up a disproportionate amount of my thinking time!
On a typical Friday night I am
Going out, or staying in! Depends on the person I'm with... or if I'm with someone. Hate doing the same thing week in week out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I did it above. I actually don't mind a good show at the theatre.
You should message me if
You like what you see and read.
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