I am a single mother and I have 3 boys whom I am very close to.
They are 19, 29 and 33. My sons are successful in their chosen
professions and life, and my youngest is now a student at UC Daivs.
I have spent the many years being involved in child centered
activities. I am still a member of the Boy Scouts and love the
yearly camping trip that we take to Ventura. My son was able to
obtain his Eagle Rank after much hard work on his (cough-our) part.
I am also involved at my local high school as a parent adviser for
the community meetings. Lets see... I am employed, that is a plus.
Recently I made the decision to pursue other employment after 7
years with my previous company. It was, and still is, a scary step
to take, but one that I do not regret. I also restarted college and
completed my 1st class the beginning of August. Many tears were
shed, but I am determined to move forward and do this for
I am a friendly person and I get along with most people. I love to
cook and pride myself on taking care of my family. I consider
myself a positive person and do not do well with negativity.
Although not exactly hourglass, I am attractive. I pride myself on
my appearance during the work week and if anything comes up on the
weekend. But I am a no makeup gal on free weekends. I am seeking a
real guy who is not into games or one night stands, that values
family as much as I do.
I am looking for a gentleman who appreciates honesty, loyalty, and
kindness. I believe I possess all three of these traits and you
should also. I have been single for many years, but that does not
mean that I have lowered my standards. If you are seeking a "bad
girl" or a party friend, you would not be interested in me. I am
very cautious and careful in life. Call me safe. On the other hand,
I love going to concerts, love the beach and the mountains, and my
What I’m doing with my life
I spent many years devoting my time to raising responsible
intelligent young men. Being a mother and a role model was one of
the very most important things to me. Now that that task is
complete, I have focused on myself and look forward to the inner
growth I expect to experience. Going back to college is so
exciting, I relish it
I’m really good at
Cooking, Socializing, Budgeting, Making people feel comfortable.
The first things people usually notice about me
My naturally curly hair, I get asked all the time if it is natural.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like indie films over Hollywood blockbusters. On the telly I
watch, Breaking Bad, Dexter, The Walking Dead, and Boardwalk Empire
for enjoyment. I will read almost anything. I just finished "The
Pearl" by Steinbeck (What a beautiful thing 90 pages can be).
Musically I am a diehard fan of Pearl Jam, I attend live Pearl Jam
concerts and have since 1993 when I first saw them, I last saw them
in Oakland in Nov 2013 and I was 3 rows back from the stage. Made
for an amazing experience and awesome pictures. I can not wait to
see them again. Food wise I am open, but I try to eat fairly
The six things I could never do without
My God, my family, laughter, my cat, food, water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How much time I am going to spend studying for the week and how
many committee meetings I have that take away from studying.
On a typical Friday night I am
When not in school, I go shopping, visit with friends, or going out
to a local restaurant.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
To be "willing to admit" means that I would have to know you.
You should message me if
You are looking for a relationship that is based on honesty and
being real. Life is way too short to play games. Let's meet for
coffee, who knows what we might find out about each other.