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thereisntthen

29 New Orleans, LA Man

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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–100
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:40pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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leaving oakland. ive been traveling non-stop for past six months or so but trying to stick it out in pittsburgh for the winter.

honestly, i really just want to meet folks who want to doubledutch with me.

but also if you want to avoid large urban areas, do sober things, squat in the forest, have land i could come help out on and or goats i could milk, want to go fishing and build rural community, and dont mind me bringing along my sort of crazy dog everywhere i go.

id rather be dirty and smelly any day but i aint no hippie(although who doesnt have a little hippie in em), i really appreciate folks who are gramaticaly incorrect(notice the misspellings?), i despise the exclusivity and elitism of academia most days but some days think about going back to college, im trying to find a healthy balance of cynicism and being posi to a point of just plain naive, i think a lot about what it means to "grow up'" how social forces have shaped us and how to break free from those ways of thinking, i like to pretend i have an idea of what im doing by making grandiose plans but im not even sure where ill end up tomorrow, i have no health or dental insurance and dont know if ill ever pay back my student loans, i dont read any of the books that typicaly get assigned to you in english lit classes id rather be reading bad ass queer authors and folks who are writing to challenge exisitng power structures (basicaly everyone who usually gets left out of highschool english classes), some days everything feels overwhelming so ill just wait it out and spend the day crafting or writing letters, i know that my reliance on dumpstered food is a reliance on capitalism but dang trader joes got some good dumpsters.

id rather be called crazy and hangin out with a bunch of weirdos any day...the queer kind..duh
What I’m doing with my life
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living as off the grid as you can in west oakland/books by candlelight...trying to be content with the fact that i never really have any idea what im doing with my life....attempting to find a place to call home. dreamin of small town livin'. working at an after-school program and digging in dirt with kids, constant projects around the house, drinking/spilling coffee while walking my dog, trying to go on more adventures out of the city, writing letters and making embroideries, squat shacks and gardens, learning how to sail, traveling, surrounding myself with rad productive friends
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being way too fucking awkward sometimes and learning to embrace it.
The first things people usually notice about me
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who cares what a bunch of assholes think
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
bell hooks, tom spanbauer, dorothy allison, octavia butler, golden compass, the revolution starts at home. zines. doris!!
nature documentaries.
old timey folk and blues, cheesy pop punk, jordaan mason and the horse museum, nina simone, hurray for the riff raff, rvivr, queercore, hip hop, sludgy doomy witchy stuff, bands that arent full of shitty bros.
food that i grow or can dumpster.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
zeus dog
libraries
care packages
doris zines
bad ass folks i can call my friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
where the hell i want to live and how to go about building real communities that dont rely on the police or other systems of oppression. effective accountability and transformative justice. nonmonogamous relationships. privilege. dogs. scams. how to stay sane living in cities and escaping into woods. the importance of staying in touch with friends. how to get free coffee. consent. gentrification. mental health and figuring out ways to not let pain and anger consume me and stop me from doing rad shit like smashing patriarchy!. cultural appropriation. moving to the carolinas.collecting maple syrup, building a tiny home, and raising goats. pizza!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
i dont really have a concept of weekends v. weekdays anymore. probably reading, hanging out with dogs, sewing, riding my bicycle, drinking cofee, exploring rofftops, roamin around lookin for trouble, and still sneaking into hotel pools...ya know things id be doing on any given day.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i once got hit by a car on my bike because i was checking my okc..
You should message me if
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the crusty queers. if youre from the midwest, wear flannel, and can appreciate a good pile of leaves when you see one. if you want to help build a treehouse or have cheesy pop punk sing-a-longs. if you want to double dutch or teach each other new skills.

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