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therhaen

26 / F / straight / Seeing someone

Peoria, Arizona

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Banking / Financial / Real Estate
Income
Kids
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am eclectic, unexpected, and endearing.

My Self-Summary

What I am:

-Tall and curvy with red hair, pale skin, and blue eyes.
-Honest, often to a fault, but I do try to be somewhat tactful.
-Open. There are very few things that I won't discuss.
-A walking contradiction.
-Funny when I'm angry. (Or so I'm told by my friends. They've talked about pissing me off, pushing me onto a stage, and watching the money flow in).
-Inquisitive. Seriously, I ask questions all the time. "Why" is my favorite word in the world...followed closely by smock, pocket, and f***.
-Bad at summing myself up in the void of these scroll boxes.
-Playful
-Creative. I love making stuff. Most recently I've been making strangely themed trophies.
-Obsessed with music.
-Good with faces.
-A bit of a pseudo-domestic goddess
-Geek, and proud of it!
-Unashamed of things I'm not very good at, but love doing.
-Easily distracted and prone to tangents.
-A complete klutz.

What I'm not:

-A liar or hypocrite
-Fake.
-Good with names
-A ninja
-Shy...usually
-A doormat, possession or trophy
-Afraid of who I am
-Good with math
-Patient with stupidity...ignorance is fine to an extent, because it implies you haven't had the chance to learn something. Stupid is when you've had the chance and ignored it.
-More to come-

I am always on the look out for fun, whatever that means to me at the moment. Sometimes it's lounging around for a lazy Sunday with a good friend, or it's going out on the town.

I love to read, write, and dabble in knitting. I do a fair amount of daydreaming, especially when there is music involved.

I love to try new things, whether it's a restaurant, an activity, or simply going to a place I've never been before. There are very few things that I won't try at least once.

I find great fun in letting people show me the way that they do things, or introduce me to the things that they enjoy. That's not because I am lazy and don't have my own ideas or plans. Actually, there is nothing better than the look on someone's face when they are wholly comfortable and in their element doing something that they enjoy. Besides, didn't I mention I love to try new things?

I love animals. Seriously, my world stops for animals, and I've been known to try to talk to them in their own language. It's an involuntary thing, but apparently really funny if you ask my friends. Sometimes it scares passersby.

Life is never boring around me. It may not always be a non-stop party, but it's never boring.

What I’m doing with my life

I work full time, and go to school part time. I am trying to get a degree in Biology, and hope to someday work with exotic mammals.

Ok, now that's over with...I'm revamping the way I approach things in general. Personal growth and all that stuff. If you're actually interested, just ask, and I'll tell you.

I’m really good at

-Asking questions and listening.
-Making up silly songs.
-Finding ways to make people smile.
-Baking monkey bread and making no-bake cookies.
-Research. Strange, I know, but it's one of my talents that actually comes in handy now and again.
-Making lists...that I rarely complete.
-Wandering around aimlessly.
-Confusing people
-Planning and then procrastinating
-Making playlists and mixed CD's
-Arranging things...in general.
-Getting overly excited about silly things, and doing happy dances.
-Making others see things from a different point of view.
-Untying knots.

-and a bunch of other stuff I can't think of right now.

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm told that most people notice my eyes and my smile. Then they notice that I'm tall, which is apparently strange for women.

If it's not any of the above, it's usually some odd random, possibly inappropriate comment that I've made a little too loudly, and they are taking out of context.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I am a fantasy geek. I love movies such as Labyrinth, Merlin, the Lord of the Rings trilogy, the Harry Potter movies, and so on. I also like movies that mess with your mind, and leave you saying "WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON?!?!" at the end. Saw, Momento, Fight Club, Identity (though to a lesser degree), Primal Fear, etc.

My favorite authors tend to be in either the horror or Sci-fi/fantasy genera. I love Charles De Lint, Ronald Dahl, Lewis Carroll, Stephen King, Anne Rice (her Witch and Vampire Chronicles), and am recently discovering the wonder that is Neil Gaiman.

I loooove Mexican food. Seriously, I could eat Mexican food everyday, and be a happy happy girl. I also like Coke slushies...a lot. Seriously, if someone buys me a Coke slushie, they get major brownie points.

The six things I could never do without

My friends and family
My cats
A notebook and writing utensil
Lip gloss/chapstick
Caffeine...ridiculous amounts of caffeine.
Time to daydream

I spend a lot of time thinking about

-Throwing oddly themed parties. Black Plague party anyone? How about a twisted Alice in Wonderland extravaganza?
-Where I'd rather be than work or school.
-Making up elaborate and outlandish stories that I always forget before I get a chance to write them down.
-Who would win in a fight, an astronaut or a caveman?
-Baking, and then who to give all the deliciousness too.
-I made a list of everything I thought about in a two hour time span that didn't have anything to do with work (which is where I was at the time). The list totaled 300 separate items, and I think I missed a few since I was on a call. I think a lot.

On a typical Friday night I am

Wandering around...it's what I'm good at. Usually fun ensues.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm really pretty open. Ask and I'll probably answer.

Oh, it drives me INSANE when men ask for naughty pictures. I get it, we are all visually stimulated to some extent, but really after 3 emails and a text message, asking is just kind of a douche move. Sorry guys. I'm an in person kind of show.

That's not to say that I'm a sexual prude. Actually, I'm very sexual and physically affectionate in general.

You should message me if

You want to...that's an easy one. :-)