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36 Topeka, KS Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 28
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
A little extra
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and might want more

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My self-summary
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I love to try new things and go new places but I'm not afraid to revisit old favorites whether it be books, food or adventures.
What I’m doing with my life
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I do sales and customer service for a large local company. My long term goal is to be a clinical therapist. Towards that end I do crisis counseling a few hours a week and am taking classes starting this fall. I have a child who I have joint custody of and who I miss when I don't see every day.
I’m really good at
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Self deprecating humor, not taking things too seiously, getting poson ivy, going out and trying new things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm approachable and down to earth.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I will read just about anything you put in front of me from People magazine to scientific articles. I like interesting fiction with stories I haven't heard or perspectives I haven't considered. I keep rereading Bill Bryson, Dan Savage, Jennifer Crusie, Fred Vargas and whatever happens to be at hand.

I have a love for reality television, but not the trashy kind. I can't recognize a Kardashian or a member of Jersey Shore but I've seen every episode of the Glee Project and the Next Iron Chef.

My dad instilled a love of science fiction in me starting with classic Star Trek. I like Eureka, Sanctuary, Doctor Who, Torchwood, etc.

My favorite singer is Dar Williams. I have eclectic tastes but most often find myself listening to folk and bluegrass, that is when I don't have the radio tuned to NPR.

Lately I've been listening to Radio Lab and Moth podcasts while I work out.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Food
2. Water
3. Family
4. Books
5. My phone
6. Love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The big picture of my life and what impact I'm making in the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In bed by 10:30.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a pretty open book in person not so much on the internet.
You should message me if
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You are a genuine person with a desire to try new things and enjoy the simple things in life.