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thesandyman

46 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:45pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
$250,000–$500,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am unlike anyone you have ever met... in a good way. Sensitive but far stronger than you can possibly imagine... Seemingly, one of the last of the "Good Guys" but with a tiny core of pure "evil" to keep things interesting.... Mature and serious, but at heart still an 8-year-old who likes to pull your pigtails.... Very open, upfront, and honest but I reserve the right to keep private a small part of my soul that you have to earn the right to see. I am very caring and will give the proverbial shirt off my back, but cross the line and I won't hesitate to call you on it.

I'm not everyone's cup of tea, but I don't want to be. Still, if you have the guts, then take a sip... I think you'll like it.
What I’m doing with my life
Spending my days (and often nights) in real estate while figuring out what kind of writer I want to be when I grow up. (I am an ex-national magazine staffer who now wonders if I am more of a writer-as-creative-type than writer-as-journalist.)
I’m really good at
being nice. Seriously, I am. I'm not kidding. Why are you laughing? Stop it! I AM NICE. Fine, don't believe me. Your loss. But I am nice. Screw you. Nicely.
The first things people usually notice about me
Gee.... I wonder what could it POSSIBLY be?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Hard to put it all in this one box, so let's just say "eclectic" and leave the rest for when we meet.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to live life more passionately, more freely, more... well, just MORE.
On a typical Friday night I am
pretty tired from a long, long week... but always up for something not so typical.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–47
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You have a beautiful smile. Sensuality and a bit of wildness would be wonderful; independence, adventurousness and at least a touch of unorthodoxy are terribly appealing. A traveler--both literal and metaphorical...

Oh, heck, just be unique... k?

P.S. I *may* favorite you before I send a message. That's probably because I didn't have the time at that very moment to send a message. So consider it a compliment and a raincheck for a future note (or feel free to say hi first... I'm all about that).