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  • Ages 30-50
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Last online
Oct 9, 2013
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Average build
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Sigh...I always hate this part...Kinda hard to describe oneself succintly in 100 letters...I'm a teacher, I love animals of all kinds...have a pet cat, though would LOVE a big dog...(hard with an apartment, though)...HUGE Billy Bragg fan, who, sadly, most people don't seem to be aware of...along those lines, I'm pretty politically active...HUGE supporter of the current Nobel Peace Prize winner...Love to travel, though, sadly, don't get to do it to ski, but ditto...Avid reader...favorite author is Kurt Vonnegut...also Milan Kundera...favorite movies..."The Shining"..."The Unbearable Lightness of Being"..."The English Patient"..."Terminator"...(The FIRST one...) Gee, what else should I say??? I'm anti-death penalty...VERY much so...(bet I lost a lot of men right there!!!)

I am intelligent, quirky, and cuddly
What I’m doing with my life
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uh...Teaching...reading...enjoying it!!! I like to cook, and do, every night, with a new recipe every night...I never make the same dish twice, the fun is in doing something new every time...during baseball season (which, sadly, for my team, just ended) I go to A's games a LOT...I care about politics a lot, and sometimes go to community meetings involving political campaigns...but mostly I do political things online...I get a lot of political emails to support things that I respond to...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
spelling/writing/reading...I know the reading part sounds funny, but, believe me, I've heard a LOT of teachers read stories to kids, and they do it in a non-fluent way, like in a monotone!!! It astounds me...they're supposed to be teaching kids how to read, how to read with INTONATION, and they can't seem to do it themselves!!!
Making kids laugh and ENJOY learning...
Making people feel at ease...
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes.
My smile.
My sense of humor
my sense of style
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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anything by Kurt Vonnegut or Milan Kundera...
I mentioned my movies earlier...
music: BILLY BRAGG...U2...The Police...SO much more, can't list it all too, too many favorites...Ethiopian, Indian, Thai, Italian...Mexican...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
pets...ALL animals, really...
the ocean
fires...(contained, of course, in fireplaces or firepits, or by rocks, whatever...)
Hot tubs...(don't have one, but wouldn't want a world without them...)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why some people are mean. And petty. I don't understand it. Why war is apparently unavoidable. Why and how so many humans seem to have no problem with killing other humans...I can't even kill bugs...I save spiders from my shower...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
reading, cooking, watching movies...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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the first concert I went to was John Cougar Mellencamp...
You should message me if
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you think you have something in common with me.