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thesherm

31 M Carrollton, TX

My Details

Last Online
Jul 28
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian, White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly), Latin (Poorly), Korean (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Simply put, I'm addicted to getting lost; I love to travel to far away places but the best times I've had are with my closest friends. This is something ingrained in my soul and I was fortunate enough to be born into a military family that afforded me this passion. My younger brother is by far my best friend and he lives just too far away.
I'm a big dreamer, sometimes my idealism can blind me from the seemingly most practical of things. I find myself passionate about small projects at a time. But I'm hopeful something will come along that will focus everything into one meaningful existence for me.

I am grass-stained, itchy, and harmonic
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
One of the many mysteries I hope to solve will be a career that involves art in some way. But I constantly question whether I'm a better consumer and fan of art rather than an being an artist myself. Questioning myself and doubt get me into a lot of trouble and I really need to stop that; assertiveness is definitely not a trait of mine. I do have a real job though, just not readily able to admit it at will. I work in the marketing department of a regional bank.
I do enjoy it, but obviously I would love to be doing something else, somewhere else. Sometimes I feel that it severely stifles my creativity. I spend all day writing passive aggressive emails to people unwilling to know better for their own good. So, lay it on me.
A great wise person asked me once, "If you had the opportunity to do one activity for one week without any worry about finances, cost, or other outside commitments, what would you love to do for this week?"
I was befuddled for a great amount of time and actually didn't answer them for nearly two weeks. When I gave them that answer they simply inquired, well why aren't you doing that right now? So, maybe I actually like this spot I'm in now, because I'm certainly not out there trying to change it. It isn't the finances/cost/commitments holding me back, I know that much at least.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Silence, contentment in being in the same room with somebody and not having to say a word is when you know you're comfortable. I have that relationship with a few people, I owe it to my expressive face.
Risk. No, seriously. I have only lost 2 games in my life that I can remember.
Also, not growing a beard. I'm half Korean - it just doesn't happen.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
One of three things; my clumsiness, most likely because they heard or saw me run into something and I'm now bleeding or cursing profusely. Secondly my ofttimes bitingly sarcastic wit. Otherwise, it would be that I have freckles and people seem amused by that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books Siddhartha, This Side of Paradise, On the Road and almost anything by Umberto Eco, Tom Wolfe and Russell Banks. I do not read nearly as much as I used to, or should. Movies Brazil, Taxi Driver, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, The Man Who Wasn't There and Wes Anderson wackiness. Music Grandaddy, Sunny Day Real Estate, Sage Francis, The Smiths, The Talking Heads, Elvis Costello, Pavement, Mates of State, Sonic Youth, Tilly and the Wall, The Books, The Kinks, and on and on and on. Food I crave Thai and Indian food on a regular basis.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
All natural peanut butter. Raw linen. Something else. Cadmium. Chianti Classico. NPR.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Let me rephrase the way this is asked. How about... I spend more time than anybody ever should thinking about how the Pittsburgh Pirates could be better. Now do not read too much into this, I am by no means a sports freak. I just have an unfortunate love affair with one of the historically worst teams in all of American professional sports. This was cultivated as a young boy by my well meaning grandparents, who could not have foreseen nineteen years {yes I updated this} of ineptitude. Again, I'm not much of a sports freak I just think its only fair to mention this. It may shed more light on my personality than I even realize.
Additionally, I feel self-conscious and guilty about spending too much time just reading blogs and not actually producing any significant writing myself. I used to be in the habit of writing periodically, it died some years ago.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In my imaginary ideal world I'd be at home painting, drinking some wine and listening to music. But I lament, often I'm not really doing much.
It varies from week to week, I rely on others to make plans for me.
I usually pass up more extravagant events for something simple and quiet with fewer people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I once was amazed by everybody's omission here. After browsing for a while, not so much. What I once had here, is neither impressive nor unique.
You'll have to send me a message to find out what it is.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–31
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
You should message me if
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even you don't want to. I don't even know what to expect. More or less, I just would like to meet some like minded people. For the most part I spend all day putting up a facade to please people that I primarily would have nothing to do with. To be able to cut loose with somebody or bodies that were outside that bubble would be a comfort.

Seriously, I will respond to messages. I'm unlikely to send you one on my own. It probably says I'm an asshole when it comes to messaging back, the truth is I was away for a long while.