In the last couple years I have come to fully accept who I am...and when I mean fully...I truly mean it. I grew up in a very conservative home and being gay would never have been something that would have been acceptable so, instead, I fought who I was for 17 years. I even thought I fell in love with a beautiful girl who was my best friend. Unfortunately, after a few years of marriage, I just could not deny who I was any longer and I came to the realization that I had to start over from the beginning. My wife was so incredibly understanding and actually cried when I told her the truth. The divorce was final 2 years ago and she has moved away and on with her life but we will continue to be friends.
Let me assure you that I am not flaky and I'm not someone who is unsure of what they want. I've never been so focused and been able to see my future so clearly in all of my life. I know that my happiest times are ahead of me.
I'm a pretty laid back guy and simple things make me happy. I LOVE to laugh, and I am VERY sarcastic. I'm kind of a dork and I love bad jokes, too. If you can't handle that...I'm not the guy for you. :) I will never win an award for being the brawniest, gruffest, manly-man out there, but I am not feminine and I do not want a partner who is either. I love sports and I absolutely would love to meet someone who can share that passion with me, whether its going to a basketball game and screaming their head off or just watching a football game with me on the couch on a Sunday afternoon.
I truly am a romantic. I want someone to give myself to completely and will give themselves to me in return. I want to find someone who, when I see them, makes me stop what I'm doing and just stare...not because of what they look like, but because I feel so lucky to be with this incredible person. I want someone to cuddle with on the couch and fall asleep in their arms or him in mine. I want that person who I can spoil and surprise with little gifts or a special night or trip that they weren't expecting. You don't have to be perfect...as a matter of fact I think that imperfections are cute.....