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31 • South Bend, IN • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 24–75
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends
- Last online
- Jun 6, 2012
- White, Other
- 5′ 4″ (1.63m)
- Body type
- Strictly vegetarian
- Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
- Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Rather not say
- Seeing Someone
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Has dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently), French (Okay), German (Okay), Hebrew (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)
J'ai tendu des cordes de clocher à clocher ; des guirlandes de fenêtre à fenêtre ; des chaînes d'or d'étoile à étoile, et je danse.
I might be different tomorrow; today is only today. I should point out that today does find me somewhat involved with someone...in fact to be honest I'm crazy in love...but you know things do change so I haven't yet deleted this profile for once and all.
You'll find me: on the couch reading and probably falling asleep, snuggled with kitties, working (mostly) tirelessly to get homeless animals adopted, working in general, trying to maintain order in a house constantly on the brink of chaos, stealing precious time from other endeavors to spend with my Someone....
Yes, I'm back. I'm really hoping to make some new friends in the area who appreciate me despite my flaws. After all, we all have flaws, just some people show them more than others. Due to the nature of mine, they're not easily hidden and so to some people I seem like a walking train wreck. I'm not. I did use to be, but I've gotten a lot better. Please be patient enough to see through the initial shyness and awkwardness. It's what I would do for you.
I wish I knew, honestly.
I can say that after three failed attempts I finally got a degree in SOMETHING! And I'm interested in going back to school part-time for more, because I'm a glutton for punishment. No, actually because I like school.
And I have LETTERS, baby. Not really important ones, but I worked hard for them and I'm semi-proud of them.
Favorite poetry: anything by T.S. Eliot but also a fan of various feminist-y stuff. I have a whole ton of books upstairs that I like but I'm too lazy to go see who the authors are and too tired to remember them.
Music I like: Tori Amos, Indigo Girls, Dar Williams, Catie Curtis, Patty Griffin, Ani DiFranco, Amanda Palmer, Melissa Etheridge, assorted other singer/songwriters, TMBG, classical of many types, swing/big band, and oh, musicals!
Movies: hmm...I'll own up to liking (or at least being comforted by) some Disney movies. I like various sci-fi films, queer movies (Hedwig!), but NO ZOMBIES!
Everybody always asks me what the deal with zombies is; they just scare me. I am not entirely against watching horror movies but you can be pretty sure that I am going to be sleeping with the light on afterwards...and I require someone to snuggle with, as well. Those are my demands for horror movies; take 'em or leave 'em.
Food: (vegetarian) sushi, fruit--MANGO especially, and I liked dried fruit of most kinds, chai (is a drink but okay), salad, pasta with vodka sauce or pesto, protein bars, veggie burgers, the occasional PBJ sandwich or rice cake with peanut butter...in fact, these are pretty much the only things I eat unless I'm being spoiled by having someone cook actual meals for me. Oh, and I suppose I should mention I enjoy chocolate. But I prefer good chocolate.
Books--good ones, not crappy ones.
Heat and A/C (it's the Midwest, yuck.)
Family and friends (is that a cop-out answer or what?)
Yeah, that's only five things. Sue me.
I wish I could think of something original and witty to put here. Oh well.
Since I sometimes have a life, I might be out at a friend's house! Yay, me! Things I like to do with friends: play Wii (not very well), watch silly movies or The L Word, go to Truman's, go for walks/hikes with our dogs, or perhaps obtain delicious treats of the ice cream-y variety.
With my love. This is the most likely one...or at least my favorite one....
Those looking for threesomes or polyamorous relationships should move on. Nothing personal, it's just not what I do. And I am currently involved with someone, in some complicated fashion.
Those looking for friends and possible romance who got this far should consider sending a message.
HINT: Paste your message into a Word document and let it correct your spelling and grammar mistakes before sending! (I am fully aware that Word is far from perfect in its grammar capabilities, but it's better than nothing.)
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