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thetis4

58 / F / straight / Single

İzmir, Turkey

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I am Alice, in, and Wonderland.

My Self-Summary

I'm Nobody! Who are you?
Are you-Nobody-too?
Then there's a pair of us!
Dont tell! they'd banish us-you know!

How dreary-to be-Somebody!
How public-like a Frog-
To tell your name-the livelong June
To an admiring Bog!

What I’m doing with my life

Life is chaotic like the make-up of the universe. "As flies to wanton boys are we to the gods." Are we? I am living life as it comes along.
I have never believed in making long-term plans. What am I doing with my life? trying to live as genuinely, as frankly as is possible... pushing the limits in frankness and authenticity..trying to savour every moment consciously the pain and all. I am trying

To see a world in a grain of sand
And a heaven in a wild flower,
Hold infinity in the palm of your hand
And eternity in an hour.

according to the philosophy of the great Romantic poet William Wordsworth : Child is Father of The Man...
Now in French
Sing "C'est la Vie" :))

I’m really good at

loving people, including the newly reached tribe of cannibals in Papua New Guinea who said the white man's flesh tastes salty and is difficult to chew !

feeling,sensing, living fully to the marrow of my bones...

trying to live in such a way that Andre Gide's words may not hold so true:)
"nothing is fatal to happiness than the remembrance of happiness" ..
Now in French
Joie de Vivre comme sentiment exaltant ressenti par toute la conscience...

The first things people usually notice about me

takes some time for the less intelligent to realize that "there is a method in (her) madness" :)) Joking aside, my sincerity, and heartfelt love towards my fellow humans except for the racists, fascists, and mediocre people.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

too many to list here..:)

Tom Mix, Texas, Red Kit, Black Beauty, Little Prince, Little Women, Uncle Tom's Cabin, Huckleberry Finn, Treasure Island, Les Miserables, A La Recherche du Temps Perdu, The Count Of Monte Cristo,Catcher in The Rye, Crime and Punishment, Anna Karenina, Tchekov, The Portrait of The Artist as A Young Man, The Scarlet and The Black, The Iliad, The Sound and The Fury,Don Quijote, The Grapes of Wrath,For Whom The Bell Tolls, A Passage to India, Heart of Darkness, Ray Bradbury: The Martian Chronicles, Camus and Sartre and Andre Gide, Nazım Hikmet Ran, Bertolt Brecht, Kazantzakis, Pushkin,Ostrovski: And They Tempered The Steel, Samed Behrengi: The Little Black Fish, Edgar Allan Poe,BUKOWSKI, JEAN GENET, Mayakovski,Marquez,Euripides, Aeschylus, Sophocles, SHAKESPEARE, Pablo Neruda, Elitis, Kavafis, LORCA, Bertolt Brecht

EMİR KUSTURİCA, Citizen Kane, Ivan The Terrible, Dersi Uzala, Shadow Samurai (Kurosawa), Casablanca, A Clockwork Orange, Pulp Fiction, Scent Of A Woman, Godfather II. The Good The Bad and The Ugly, Ben Hur, The King and I, The Road (Yılmaz Güney), New Turkish Movie, Iranian Movie, Wong Kar Wai's In The Mood For Love,Amélie, American Beauty,Queen Margot, Amarcord, Rome: Open City,Full Metal Jacket, Passolini's films, La Belle du Jour, Una Giornata Particolare ( Marcello Mastrioanni, Sophia Loren) Eternal Sunshine of The Spotless Mind,The Usual Suspects, Illustrious Corpses, Cinema Paradiso, CARLOS SAURA ,Woody Allen : especially Zelig,NEMO of course.. and LOST:)
Oh My God! How could I have forgotten Fisher King...

Rock, Blues, Jazz, Folk Music, Classical Music,Bach, MOZART, Beethoven
Beatles, PİNK FLOYD, The Rolling Stones, Bee Gees, Led Zeppelin, Elvis, Edith Piaf, Scorpions, Depeche Mode, Metallica, a wide range..

Sea- Food, Rakı, Wine, Irish Cream :)red wine

Thai Food, Mediterrenean Cuisine,

The six things I could never do without

love,freedom,the sea,human company,tea,books and music (which cheating with "and" makes it eight already :))
Now in French
Liberté, égalité, fraternité :)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

the universe, the black holes,the concept of time, our poor lonely planet and "what man has made (AND IS STILL DOING) to man "...
Now in French
L'Existence

On a typical Friday night I am

What is "typical"? "typical Harvard" :))) may not be "typical me" :)
staying away from what everyone does on Fridays...

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

is that the meaning of my real name in Persian is "bringer of joy and good news"
and that I do not know why I have chosen Achilles' mother as my nickname while my heart beats for Hector and his mother and father.

You should message me if

"Should? :) madam"
" Nay, I know not "should" :)

.. you would like to know someone from Shakespeare Country, from the planet where Little Prince came from, if you would indeed care to connect to Alice in Wonderland who still looks at everything in awe and who is determined never,never to grow up.