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thetoddster

45 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 32–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Aug 20
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
New York is officially home after five years. Have also had stints in Boston/Miami/DC/San Francisco.

INFJ, for what that's worth.

Not into endless chit chat that leads to nowhere. Let's exchange an email or two and then grab a coffee or beer. It's all about the connection.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Work: Publishing. Books. Great people. Reading is good. Smart is sexy.

Outside of work, it's a good book; an independent film; an afternoon at MOMA; Mark Fisher Fitness; Madison Square Park; a stroll in the West Village.

Dating is a chore, but, ultimately, it would be great to meet someone to spend a long weekend in Ptown with; grab the latest off-Broadway show; try the new restaurant in the West Village; read the Sunday Times.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
A Saturday pm nap.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You tell me
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: A Home at the End of the World; The Imperfectionists; Unbroken; Fun Home; Food Rules; Little Children; Year of Magical Thinking
Movies: Boyhood; Before Sunrise; Brokeback Mountain; 127 Hours; Blue Valentine
Music: Train; Maroon Five; U2; Sinatra; Duncan Sheik; Brandon Flowers; Arcade Fire; Rufus Wainwright
Food: like it all. Nasty sweet tooth.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family
Morning coffee
NYT crossword
Working out
Amazing friends
Ptown
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why I spend time on ok Cupid
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
just as likely to be chilling at home with a glass of wine and my DVR (catching up on the Daily Show or Colbert) as grabbing an afterwork cocktail with a friend. Depends on how intense the work week was.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'll tell you on our third date.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're smart AND a bit of a smart ass.
You want to grab a beer and see where it goes.
You're not into endless emails on here and would prefer to meet.