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thetoddster

44 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:55am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Low-key, sane, professional guy here. Moved to NYC from Beantown (that's Boston) in 2009. Yes, still a Red Sox fan, but I've definitely grown to like the vibe, the energy and the peeps of the Big Apple. Not much into "the scene," and haven't been to a club in years, but always up for a beer at Therapy, Industry, or Barracuda.
What I’m doing with my life
Work in publishing and generally enjoy it, though it's a dying industry and I need to figure out what to do next. But I digress...

Outside of work, it's a good book; an independent film; an afternoon at MOMA; Bikram yoga; or a walk in Central Park. Good food and great wine, too.
I’m really good at
A Saturday pm nap.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: A Home at the End of the World; The Imperfectionists; Unbroken; Fun Home; Food Rules; Little Children; Year of Magical Thinking
Movies: Before Sunrise; Brokeback Mountain; 127 Hours; Blue Valentine
Music: Train; Maroon Five; U2; Sinatra; Duncan Sheik; Brandon Flowers; Arcade Fire; Rufus Wainwright
Food: like it all. Nasty sweet tooth.
The six things I could never do without
My family
Morning coffee
A crossword puzzle
Working out
Jon Stewart
Ptown
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why I spend time on ok Cupid
On a typical Friday night I am
just as likely to be chilling at home with a glass of wine and my DVR (catching up on the Daily Show or The Office) as grabbing an afterwork cocktail with a friend. Depends on how intense the work week was.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll tell you on our third date.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 32–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're smart AND a bit of a smart ass.
You want to grab a beer and see where it goes.
You're not into endless emails on here and would prefer to meet.