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28 Bellingham, WA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 1:19am
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Not at all
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), German (Poorly), Irish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
(just saying ahead of time, ive been on and off this site for years and no for a fact it DOES NOT WORK, anytime ive ever found love this site has had nothing to do with it, but heres going again for the hell of it:) )

canadian bear man

macabre, morbid and well read/spoken
works with metal and likes the metal music
im pretty likeable and can either make you laugh uncontrollably or seriously offend you to the point of wanting to smack me
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
same as usual
alot and not much at the same time
was injured in an work related accident few years back and have been trying to get back into a career, for now working full time as a steel fabricator in town making industrial saws for mills, while on my time off usually at some sort of music event , or on the ps3 now and then
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
i like to think I'm a low brow modern oscar wylde, just without the velvet suits or being a homosexual

all the lively arts, etiquette, conversation, listening

making people laugh, or run away in terror if needed

full of information on the most obscure and irreverent of trivia/ history/ general what ever the fuck
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
pretty much everything
just look at the pics


ive been known to look good in a suit

that and that im very soft spoken and polite for someone who looks like they could take down most wild animals barehanded
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
for books, mainly the classics or anything intriguing, but as most subcultural beings these days i do enjoy the odd graphic novel and such.............BATMAN!!!

for movies, either something funny or smart, or absurdly perverse
lets put it this way, id rather watch a new adaptation of a jane austin or charles dickens novel then the fast and the furious part 14435455

tv shows, im an adult who likes cartoons (message me if you remember and love duckman), but also anything educational or a well written drama

for music, mainly black metal, traditional metal and punk, but alot of other stuff too, literally things you wouldn't expect (follkkk), but sorry just never cared much for most grunge

food anything, im also a world class cook (actually)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
mental stimulation
friends (except the ones i hate)
twisted senses of humor
records and cds
live shows

many things, but im also pretty spartan in how i live when you get down to it, dont ever have dreams of owning a mansion or yacht, the truth is the best things in life money ussualy cant buy and most things that are actually fun and exciting dont have to be expensive
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the future and plotting for it
the present and what to do with it
the past and what to learn from it

and if not that music, entertainment, philosophy and sexxx
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at a show/ karaoke/ with friends/ out on the town/ or in a different city searching for success

maybe fighting crime as my alter ego, HEAVY METAL BEAR!!!!!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
once heard a lady boo boo song and enjoyed it
was either about dance floors and cell phone or cigarettes and ignoring a shirtless spanish gentleman


i dont drink anymore, i used too have a problem with it then i stopped, dont mind being around it though and have no problem with people drinking around me, just wont do it myself

also my shyness and stoicism will eventually destroy me
You should message me if
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if you like what you see and here, want to hang out and go do something, maybe go on a quest, i work 5 days a week and when the weekend comes im always looking for something to do and fun to be had

you want to

because you know you want to


(going to be honest and straight of the bat, im not preachy and will never say anything unless asked about some of my modern pagan beliefs and ways, but if you are on the other a hand a very devout or over the top christian, muslim or jew, probably not even worth contacting me, CONVERSION ATTEMPTS OR DEBATES ON MONOTHEISM OR OTHER DOGMA NOT WANTED, that goes for political wackos too be you far right or left, NEO NAZIS OR HIPPIE ANARCHISTS LEAVE NOW!)