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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Online now!
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Once upon a time, I was the lead singer in a band called Me and Marsupial. I wrote a thesis on Tennyson in college, and now I'm a resident in internal medicine at a hospital uptown. Some people think I'm a hipster, other people think I'm square; I would describe my outlook as literary.
What I’m doing with my life
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For fun: going to the movies, getting progressively worse at guitar, writing stories, dining or imbibing with people I haven't seen in too long, karaoke, swimming laps, escaping to the mountains or the beach, going to Los Angeles, sesquipedalianism.

For work: ask me in person, but only if you want to.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being (too?) honest, bar trivia, grammar, witty banter, multiple choice questions, wowing your mother, unclogging drains, primate taxonomy, writing thank you notes, vocal harmonies, being punctual, being reliable in general, texting everyone I know way too often, dunk tanks, geography, flirting with old ladies, and poetic gestures.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Blue eyes, blond hair, Irish charm, devilish grin.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I prefer dreamy music of all genres: Talk Talk, Summer Fiction, The Sundays, Dirty Projectors, Maurice Ravel, REM, Sufjan, Schubert, and Miles Davis. I try my best with hip-hop, but it doesn't always work out. The Beatles and Radiohead will always top the all-time list. Also, Springsteen.

I like ribald or aristocratic novels: Ford Madox Ford, Evelyn Waugh, F. Scott Fitzgerald, John Barth, and William Faulkner. I also like non-fiction.

I like funny movies with moments of sadness: Groundhog Day, the Squid and the Whale. I also like movies that are just beautiful: Old Joy, Mulholland Drive, the Tree of Life. Bonus for the ladies: I like romantic comedies.

I just bought a radio alarm clock so I can listen to NPR when I wake up. I like The Brian Lehrer Show, This American Life, Wait Wait Don't Tell Me, and The Diane Rehm Show.

Things I don't really care that much about: horror movies, sports, top 40 music, and celebrities.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My little brother.
Water on my bedside table.
The NYTimes Crossword.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"If equal affection cannot be, Let the more loving one be me." - W.H. Auden

It's an aspiration, at least.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Drinking beer. Or in the hospital. Never both.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I once took a class about how to chop vegetables.
You should message me if
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You're a creative person who likes science, or a scientific person who likes art. Or you're somewhere in between.