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23 Hickory, NC Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 18-23
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 12
Black, White
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Not at all
Christianity and it’s important
High school
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I love the Lord with all my heart and if you have a problem with it, talk to me and let me show you just how good he has been to me!

If your still reading, first off welcome to my page and my name is Shontel *what's yours? :P*. I'm 21 years YOUNG and currently in college majoring in Culinary Arts!

Random: I LOVE Italian food, and could eat it all day everyday!

Honestly, I do not drive because one, I'm scared LOL. Two, I have seizures and sometimes black out so it's not safe.

Now to the even more boring part
... :-(

I am a sweet, caring, and honest person. I am the type that always have people coming for advice and thanking me later. I am confident in everything I do and very self motivated.

I weigh 238, alot of it is side effects for medications over the past yr so yes I'm a bbw!! Although I am big, don't let me or the numbers fool you. I love doing everything a normal person does, such as, volleyball, exercising, football, hiking, SWIMMING, tennis, camping, fishing , and everything else you can think of. I am willing to try everything at least twice, just as long as it's fun... I'm okay with it. (:

Random again: People love me because I tell the ugly truth 24/7/365! Also my nickname is Shell.

I'm looking for a guy who knows how to be a true gentleman. I'm not here to play games so I don't expect a guy to message me with them. I need a guy who is loving, sweet, want kids in the future, not scared to commit, and will support me in everything I do. I need my guy to keep it real 100 percent at all times. Also I need my guy to be someone with manners, I don't like for people to be rude for no reason. I believe guys can't handle a strong black female like myself . I lay it down straight and I keep all my thoughts in order . The little things piss me off more than the big things. That's usually because the small things leads up to the big things and by that time I'm over it and you!

If I message you and your not interested, then at least say so instead of being rude and ignoring it !
What I’m doing with my life
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Staying in school, that is honestly taking up so much of my life but I love what I am going for. Other than that, working and constantly trying to find ways to better myself.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at telling It how it is . I am also really good at getting myself in trouble for telling it how it is. I think I am pretty good at singing. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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The first thing people usually notice about me is my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My favorite book is the Bible.
I don't really listen to music or watch tv/movies.
I love Italian food .
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. God
2. My grandma who raised me .
3. My nieces and nephew
4. My phone
5. $10 lol
6. Humour
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking about school, my family, and if I will be lonely the rest of my life. Lol, I don't want to be the old lady sitting in the rocking chair with 50 billion cats, and looking at everyone passing from a window.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sitting around wondering what I am going to do Saturday. If not that, then I am usually chilling with my friends and having a pizza night!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am a semi-germophobe, so I may seem 'weird'when it comes to certain things.
You should message me if
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You have goals set in your life and planning on making it happen.
You are open-minded and honest.
Want kids in the future.
Stays in tune with God.
You're Interested.
Not just looking for sex in any way, shape, or form.
Has respect for a lady and is willing to be a true gentleman.
Honestly wants a serious relationship. Not now, but what happens, happens.