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27 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:08pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Hindi (Okay)

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My self-summary
I love:
Interesting ideas. Beauty (natural and designed). Banter. Dancing. Vulnerability. The meeting of two minds. A good massage (giving and receiving). The moment when someone I love melts into my arms. Chocolate. Flavorful food. That blissful post-workout feeling. Going from ingredients to something tasty. Sentence fragments (too easy?),

People often comment that I'm genuine, open, and charismatic.
What I’m doing with my life
Sleeping, enjoying exploring myself and connecting deeply and authentically with other people, being a "yes to everything," growing more and more passionate about self-development, personal growth, and nutrition. And in my other 60+ hours a week, figuring out whether strategy consulting is for me....

One woman's profile requested people who see themselves as a "positive force in the universe." I don't think I've quite reached such cosmic proportions, but hopefully I'm headed in the right direction.
I’m really good at
Being a smartass. Introspecting. Analyzing. Listening. Napping. Apparently back massages.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like how this section refuses to acknowledge the existence of the Internet.

These days I listen to a lot of podcasts. My favorites are Econtalk, Big Think, TED Talks (though those are occasionally a little too breathlessly self-important), and sometimes Zencast.

Online: New Yorker, Farnam Street, lesswrong, Bulletproof Executive, and Quora. If you haven't heard of Quora you need to join immediately; it is like Facebook + Wikipedia + useful + crack.

Books: I'm getting really into books on personal change, self development, etc. I love reading things that aren't just intellectually interesting, but make an immediate impact on my life.

Music: depends what mood I'm in -- I really love listening to music but it's not my "thing." Ranges from Trance to Alternative Rock to Andrew Bird to currently popular danceable songs to various types of Alternative Rock and Pop that I'm embarrassed to admit :-)

Food: Indian, Middle Eastern, and Mexican, plus Blazin' Buffalo Wing almonds. If I ate more carbs, pizza would definitely be on the list.
The six things I could never do without
I'm not particularly interested in this question, so I'll take advantage of this space to note that I spent a non-trivial amount of time deciding which field would be the most fun to leave with the default message.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why people act the way they do. What it means to live a good (happy? fulfilling? moral?) life, and how I can do that. What the role of government and business should be. How to get into conversations about all these things without seeming pretentious.
On a typical Friday night I am
Trying out an interesting restaurant with a friend or two, then either drinking and talking late into the night or going clubbing (for the dancing, not the scene). I am not a big fan of loud bars. If you are, I'd be interested to know why.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're intrigued, and think we might enjoy each other.

Or you like to dance.

Or you like the taste of beer. (Not really, but bonus points if you get the reference.)