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41 M Chicago, IL

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Last Online
Today – 3:09am
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Not at all
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Under Construction
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Seeing what unfolds.

I have an IT Career Networking/Server Support/Desktop Support. I like an enjoy computers and helping people, but it's a job. A career level job but a job. I don't like using it as a way to identify myself.Unfortunately I have to since that is what society is conditioned for. Everyone wants to know "what you do" and equate it with "who you are" and their idea of what they think a person is that works that type of job/career. They don't spend time, or want to spend time, learning about "who you are". Sorry, I stepped up on a soap box, I do that from time to time. Comes with having opinions and a willingness to share/speak them. :D

What do I really do with my life? Try to enjoy it. I read. News articles, books, blogs, science articles, opinion pieces, etc etc. I enjoy building things. Home Rehab/Improvement projects, costuming things (like mechanical dragon wings), help friends build artsy stuff. Go on adventures exploring Aquariums, Zoos, Museums, Concerts, Fringe Theater, Parks, day trips with friends, etc. Workout, train in martial arts. Garden (I'm new at it, turned my front yard into a garden last year. It's a work in progess).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being Awkward. I'd like to think that at times it's cute and charming. I'm sure at other times it's just... well, Awkward.
The first things people usually notice about me
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One first sight, I'm tall and look like a typical white bread middle class guy.

Update... The tall is still noticed, but the typical white bread middle class guy image is disillusioned by the cobalt blue hair I now sport.

After chatting with me, first thing noticed is I'm a bit quirky.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm an analyzer/occasional over thinker. I could be thinking about what happened or what I observed. Or just pondering the inside of my own mind. I'm an introvert and introspective.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I might be out, but not likely unless there is something more interesting than a bar or "hanging out". I'm not the type to go out, just to go out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I really don't have anything private. I'm very open. Ask and it's likely I'll tell you.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You should message me if you're artsy, geeky, nerdy and want someone to join you in finding fun, interesting things to do.

Adventures, we should go on adventures.