This is not your typical profile designed to "sell myself" to you. It is intended to weed people out.
Fun, Geeky, Introverted, Different, Easy Going, Intense at times, Introspective, Silly, Sweet, Dorky, Weird, Smart, Kind, Kinky, Nonconformist.
I don't see any of the above adjectives as pejoratives or negatives. If you do, then we are not a match.
I'm not looking for "the one". I don't believe such a thing exists. There is no "fate" or pre-destiny. No Disney Princess/Prince stories. Relationships IE: Romantic/Platonic/Family are worked on and built. No magical "the one".
I'm looking for someone I can have fun with and go on adventures with (adventures and dates are/should be, synonymous). Ultimately I'm looking for connection with someone, whether it's just a fling or a serious relationship. If it is just a fling, that's cool. I've started plenty of good friendships that still exist today with a fling that didn't go romantic. If we click and it turns romantic, great. I don't have a relationship goal, where ever it leads is where it goes. Relationships should be about the journey, not the destination.
I'm not typical. I never seemed to have been infected with with the desire to settle down, raise kids, spend lots of time with family, etc. I"m not interested in raising children, I'll make a good uncle but not interested in anything more than that. I'm also not a family gathering type, well, with my family... I'm open to others. If you're looking to settle down, have children and raise a family, etc, we're not a match.
I go to concerts, newer music as well as established bands. I still get into and even look for mosh pits. I go to Ren Faires and I dress up in fantasy garb. I go to burner and flow events, I haven't made it to Burning Man yet, but at some point I will. I enjoy Fringe Theater and have a cousin that has his own Theater Company as well as some friends that have their own. I have even done stage hand work with them for about 6 months because it was fun. I go to comic and sci-fi conventions. I've been known to go to Goth clubs if a good friend of mine is dj'ing. I'm not a bar or club type but there are exceptions. I like going to museums, art galleries and being amazed. When I go I look at exhibits with child like interest. I'm a pet person. I have several cats and a couple aquatic turtles. I'm building an indoor pond for the turtles. It will either be 8' x 4' or 6' x 5', I'm still working on the designs for it. A full Eco system; plants, fish, turtles, waterfall, I'm excited about it. I ripped out my front yard and installed two 8' x 8' raised beds and I'm learning to garden.
I'm a late bloomer, so I'm now experiencing things that most experience in their late 20's to early 30's, and I intend to continue to do so until the end of my days. So if you're at the same place or of that age group, let's go have fun. If you're past that age group and have done these things, come do them again. If not, we're not a match.
Why is Relationship Type in "My Details" so limited. Mostly/Strictly Monogamous or Mostly/Strickly Non-Monogamous. So much variation is lost in between. How about Mostly Monogamous and lean towards it, but has dabbled with non-monogamy and not closed minded to Non-Monogamous relationship if a good connection/trust worthy individual is found?