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41 M Chicago, IL

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:19pm
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Not at all
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Under Construction
What I’m doing with my life
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Seeing what unfolds.

I have an IT Career doing Networking/Server Support/Desktop Support. It's a career level job but it's just a job and a way to make money.

What do I really do with my life? I read. News articles, books, blogs, science articles, opinion pieces, etc etc. I enjoy building things. Home Rehab/Improvement projects, costuming things (like mechanical dragon wings), help friends build artsy stuff. Go on adventures exploring Aquariums, Zoos, Museums, Concerts, Fringe Theater, Parks, day trips with friends, etc. Workout, train in martial arts. Garden (I'm new at it, turned my front yard into a garden last year, I'm learning as I grow.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being Awkward. I'd like to think that at times it's cute and charming. I'm sure at other times it's just... well, Awkward.
The first things people usually notice about me
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One first sight, I'm tall and look like a typical white bread middle class guy.

Update... The tall is still noticed, but the typical white bread middle class guy image is disillusioned by the cobalt blue hair I've dyed the tips of my hair with.

That I'm a bit quirky is sometimes noticed at first as well.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My book preference is in the realm of fantasy and sci-fi. Recently I've enjoying the Dresden Files series by Jim Butcher and I'm on book 8. I do branch out from time to time. The most recent non fantasy/sci-fi was the memoir Dry by Augusten Burroughs and I'm currently reading The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm an analyzer/occasional over thinker. I could be thinking about what I've experienced or what I've observed and the resulting myriad possibilities that spring for from that starting point. Or just pondering the inside of my own mind. I'm an introvert and introspective.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I might be out, but not likely. Unless there is something more interesting than a bar or the usual social activity. Something has to interest me more than my own projects, hobbies or my need to recharge after a full day working. I'm not the type to go out, just to go out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I really don't have anything private. I'm very open. Ask and it's likely I'll tell you.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you're artsy, geeky, nerdy and want someone to join you in finding fun, interesting things to do.

Adventures, we should go on adventures.