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41 M Chicago, IL

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:52pm
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Not at all
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm a geek and a bit eclectic. I boast a wide range of interests and hobbies. I enjoy things like Fringe Theater, Concerts, Games (Board games, Card games, Roleplaying games),Martial Arts/Boxing, Gardening, Swing Dancing, Museums, Art Galleries, Aquariums, Industrial Music (Neo), Renaissance Faires, Burner Community (Lakes of Fire, Burning Man eventually), Anime/Comic Cons, Pets, etc etc. It would be grand to have company for some or all of these things.

I think of myself as being creative or at least crafty, even if it doesn't always manifest in what is considered to be an "artsy" genre.

As active as I am, I'm a bit of an introvert and balance the activity with solitude and time alone or with a select few. If you hear the term introvert and you think socially maladjusted basement dweller, that's not me. Well, except for the basement dwelling. I finished my basement (cellar to be more accurate, it's only 4' under ground) and that is my main living space. But anyway, I'm just not good at "hanging out", never have been. I need a purpose, something to do, see, experiences to have. Conversation should happen while doing something. If not, I'd rather spend time pondering, working on hobbies, reading, etc. "Hanging out" without some activity, a show, a museum, interesting distractions to trigger conversation, just doesn't appeal to me. Meeting to just talk... "oh look, a squirrel".
What I’m doing with my life
Seeing what unfolds.

I have an IT Career Networking/Server Support/Desktop Support. I like an enjoy computers and helping people, but it's a job. A career level job but a job. I don't like using it as a way to identify myself.Unfortunately I have to since that is what society is conditioned for. Everyone wants to know "what you do" and equate it with "who you are" and their idea of what they think a person is that works that type of job/career. They don't spend time, or want to spend time, learning about "who you are". Sorry, I stepped up on a soap box, I do that from time to time. Comes with having opinions and a willingness to share/speak them. :D

What do I really do with my life? Try to enjoy it. I read. News articles, books, blogs, science articles, opinion pieces, etc etc. I enjoy building things. Home Rehab/Improvement projects, costuming things (like mechanical dragon wings), help friends build artsy stuff. Go on adventures exploring Aquariums, Zoos, Museums, Concerts, Fringe Theater, Parks, day trips with friends, etc. Workout, train in martial arts. Garden (I'm new at it, turned my front yard into a garden last year. It's a work in progess).
I’m really good at
Being Awkward. I'd like to think that at times it cute and charming. I'm sure at other times it's just... well, Awkward.
The first things people usually notice about me
One first sight, I'm tall and look like a typical white bread middle class guy.

After chatting with me... I'm still tall, but not the typical white bread middle class guy. I'm a bit quirky and even though I'm middle class now, that's not where I came from.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I'm an analyzer/occasional over thinker. I could be thinking about what happened or what I observed. Or just pondering the inside of my own mind. I'm an introvert and introspective.
On a typical Friday night I am
I might be out, but not likely unless there is something more interesting than a bar or "hanging out". I'm not the type to go out, just to go out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I really don't have anything private. I'm very open. Ask and it's likely I'll tell you.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You should message me if you're artsy, geeky, nerdy and want someone to join you in finding fun, interesting things to do.

Adventures, we should go on adventures.