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41 Chicago, IL Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:34pm
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Not at all
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
This is not your typical profile designed to "sell myself" to you. It is intended to weed people out.

Fun, Geeky, Introverted, Different, Easy Going, Intense at times, Introspective, Silly, Sweet, Dorky, Weird, Smart, Kind, Kinky, Nonconformist.

I don't see any of the above adjectives as pejoratives or negatives. If you do, then we are not a match.

I'm not looking for "the one". I don't believe such a thing exists. There is no "fate" or pre-destiny. No Disney Princess/Prince stories. Relationships IE: Romantic/Platonic/Family are worked on and built. No magical "the one".
I'm looking for someone I can have fun with and go on adventures with (adventures and dates are/should be, synonymous). Ultimately I'm looking for connection with someone, whether it's just a fling or a serious relationship. If it is just a fling, that's cool. I've started plenty of good friendships that still exist today with a fling that didn't go romantic. If we click and it turns romantic, great. I don't have a relationship goal, where ever it leads is where it goes. Relationships should be about the journey, not the destination.

I'm not typical. I never seemed to have been infected with with the desire to settle down, raise kids, spend lots of time with family, etc. I"m not interested in raising children, I'll make a good uncle but not interested in anything more than that. I'm also not a family gathering type, well, with my family... I'm open to others. If you're looking to settle down, have children and raise a family, etc, we're not a match.

I go to concerts, newer music as well as established bands. I still get into and even look for mosh pits. I go to Ren Faires and I dress up in fantasy garb. I go to burner and flow events, I haven't made it to Burning Man yet, but at some point I will. I enjoy Fringe Theater and have a cousin that has his own Theater Company as well as some friends that have their own. I have even done stage hand work with them for about 6 months because it was fun. I go to comic and sci-fi conventions. I've been known to go to Goth clubs if a good friend of mine is dj'ing. I'm not a bar or club type but there are exceptions. I like going to museums, art galleries and being amazed. When I go I look at exhibits with child like interest. I'm a pet person. I have several cats and a couple aquatic turtles. I'm building an indoor pond for the turtles. It will either be 8' x 4' or 6' x 5', I'm still working on the designs for it. A full Eco system; plants, fish, turtles, waterfall, I'm excited about it. I ripped out my front yard and installed two 8' x 8' raised beds and I'm learning to garden.

I'm a late bloomer, so I'm now experiencing things that most experience in their late 20's to early 30's, and I intend to continue to do so until the end of my days. So if you're at the same place or of that age group, let's go have fun. If you're past that age group and have done these things, come do them again. If not, we're not a match.

Why is Relationship Type in "My Details" so limited. Mostly/Strictly Monogamous or Mostly/Strickly Non-Monogamous. So much variation is lost in between. How about Mostly Monogamous and lean towards it, but has dabbled with non-monogamy and not closed minded to Non-Monogamous relationship if a good connection/trust worthy individual is found?
What I’m doing with my life
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I have an IT Career as a Networking/Server Support/Desktop Support tech. It's a career, but it's just a job and a way to make money.

I'm fairly eclectic with how I spend my time. I read, primarily sci-fi and fantasy but dabble in all sorts of reading material. News articles, opinion pieces, blogs, science articles, etc etc. I game, video games, board games, card games, table top role-playing games. I enjoy building things. Home Rehab/Improvement projects, costuming things (like mechanical dragon wings). artsy stuff. Helping friends, it could be to help them move, build something, bury a body... um... er.... help with problems/solving things... Go on adventures: explore Aquariums, Zoos, Museums, Concerts. See Fringe Theater, visit Parks, go on day trips with friends. Workout, train in martial arts. Garden (I'm new at it, turned my front yard into a garden and I'm learning as I grow things. I occasionally go out swing dancing. I recently joined the Burning Community (Burning Man), I'm part of themed camp called Gothee House. I'm not into bars or clubs.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being Awkward. I'd like to think that at times it's cute and charming. I'm sure at other times it's just... well, Awkward.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Cobalt blue hair. I've frosted the tips of my hair Cobalt blue.

If not the blue hair, or because of the blue hair, people notice I'm a bit quirky.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My book preference is in the realm of fantasy and sci-fi. Recently I've enjoying the Dresden Files series by Jim Butcher. I do branch out from time to time. The most recent non fantasy/sci-fi was the memoir Dry by Augusten Burroughs and I'm currently reading The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably relaxing after the work day and week. Likely working on one of my projects, hobbies or just recharging. I'm not the type to go out, just to go out. But if there is something interesting to do, then I might be doing that.
You should message me if
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If you're artsy, geeky, nerdy and want someone to join you in finding fun, interesting things to do, and go on adventures.

Adventures, we should go on adventures.