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41 Chicago, IL Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Not at all
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am intelligent, nerdy/geeky, introverted, funny, occasionally adorable, kinky, passionate, goes off on tangents (conversation will wonder all over the place, oooh, squirrel. Did you see that squirrel? Do you like squirrels?), absent-minded, and not much of a socialite.

I might not be super social, but I have a wide variety of hobbies and interests. I enjoy theater (preferably fringe but off Broadway too), Museums, Art Galleries, Parks, Zoo's, Hiking, Burning Man Community type stuff. I haven't gone to Burning Man but I go to the Midwest event of the same type called Lakes of Fire. I swing dance. I actively train in Martial Arts. Boxing and Filipino Stick and Knife right now, but I've done others in the past and will probably do others in the future. I cosplay and go to Renaissance Faire's in fantasy costuming. Comic and SciFi Conventions. I recently started a garden and have experimented with pickling. I'm open to learning/experiencing new things as well.

I'm an animal person. I like dogs, but don't want the time commitment that comes with one (see above reference to not wanting to raise children). I have 4 cats. Yes, i'm working on becoming a crazy cat guy, I'm ok with this, I have a 1600 sq home including the finished cellar (my primary living space). So it's not crowded. I also have two aquatic turtles. I'm building them a 8'x4'x2.5 foot pond in the cellar. I've had the turtles 7 ish years, I'll have them for another 20 years, give or take. I want them to have a better living space than a small tank. That, and how cool will it be to have nature year round inside. Daylight bulbs (Full Spectrum) mixed with plant bulbs for the sun, a waterfall, plants, fish, turtles. I'm aiming for a full eco system. Did I mention I'm a geek? :)
What I’m doing with my life
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I have an IT Career doing Networking/Server Support/Desktop Support. It's a career level job but it's just a job and a way to make money.

What do I really do with my life? I read, all sorts of things. News articles, books, blogs, science articles, opinion pieces, etc etc. I enjoy building things. Home Rehab/Improvement projects, costuming things (like mechanical dragon wings), help friends build artsy stuff. Go on adventures exploring Aquariums, Zoos, Museums, Concerts, Fringe Theater, Parks, day trips with friends, etc. Workout, train in martial arts. Garden (I'm new at it, turned my front yard into a garden last year, I'm learning as I grow.

I'm not super social. Definitely not on what would be considered a normal or average amount. But I do, do social things. Usually with one, maybe a few other people. I'm not a group friendship type person.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being Awkward. I'd like to think that at times it's cute and charming. I'm sure at other times it's just... well, Awkward.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Cobalt blue hair. I've frosted the tips of my hair Cobalt blue.

So it might be noticed I'm a bit quirky.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My book preference is in the realm of fantasy and sci-fi. Recently I've enjoying the Dresden Files series by Jim Butcher and I'm on book 8. I do branch out from time to time. The most recent non fantasy/sci-fi was the memoir Dry by Augusten Burroughs and I'm currently reading The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I might be out, but not likely. Unless there is something more interesting than a bar or the usual social activity. Something has to interest me more than my own projects, hobbies or my need to recharge after a full day working. I'm not the type to go out, just to go out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm shy at first.
I'm not likely to initiate contact or send the first message..
You should message me if
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You should message me if you're artsy, geeky, nerdy and want someone to join you in finding fun, interesting things to do.

Adventures, we should go on adventures.