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42 Chicago, IL Cis Man

Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 25
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Not at all
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a versatile individual with a wide range of experiences. I have many thoughts, opinions and feelings and tend to share my mind and go off on tangents.

I am not typical nor main stream. I'm quirky, eclectic, geeky with a touch of nerd. A loner that that has some social skills and bounces on the edges of some social circles.

I'm an extroverted introvert. I believe in quality over quantity. I much rather, and do, spend my nights/weekends at home with my pets, working on hobbies, projects, pondering things. That is preferred over being out with people just to be social.

I go to concerts, newer music as well as established bands. I still get into and even look for mosh pits. I go to Ren Faires and I dress up in fantasy garb. I go to burner and flow events. I haven't made it to Burning Man yet, but at some point I will. I enjoy Fringe Theater and have a cousin that has his own Theater Company as well as some friends that have their own. I have even done stage hand work with them, it was fun. I go to comic and sci-fi conventions. I've been known to go to Goth clubs. A good friend of mine dj's once a month at one. I'm not a bar or club type but there are exceptions. I like going to museums, art galleries and being amazed. When I go I look at exhibits with child like interest. I'm a pet person. I have several cats and a couple aquatic turtles. I'm building a 6'x5'x3' indoor pond for the turtles. I'm still working on the design of it. It will be a full full Eco system; plants, fish, turtles, waterfall, I'm excited about it. I also ripped out my front yard and installed two 8' x 8' raised beds and I'm learning to garden.

I'm not looking for a serious relationship. If I'm looking for anything, it's a solid friendship that has potential for some sexy time. Any potential partner, causal or serious, has to be an individual. They need to have their own thing going on. I'm not interested in "completing" someone else. Complete people only, should apply. Please have your own interests, hobbies, etc Some to share, some to keep your own. I have mine. I'll share (and maybe encourage) but I also want my alone time as well. I'm comfortable being alone, I like it and sometimes prefer it. But that doesn't mean I don't enjoy companionship. I do. And as I sometimes want to be alone, sometimes I want to hang out with someone and go on an adventures, whatever they may be. A concert, a museum, a random road trip, helping you with a project, you helping me with a project, perhaps find good food, enjoy some conversation. You know, companionship, and it can end there, as friends. But if there's a physical click, let's have some fun in addition to the friendship. The healthiest relationships, romantic or otherwise, are based on a friendship.

So let's go have fun.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have an IT Career as a Networking/Server Support/Desktop Support tech. It's a career, but it's just a job and a way to make money.

I'm fairly eclectic with how I spend my time. I read, primarily sci-fi and fantasy but dabble in all sorts of reading material. News articles, opinion pieces, blogs, science articles, etc etc. I game, video games, board games, card games, table top role-playing games. I enjoy building things. Home Rehab/Improvement projects, costuming things (like mechanical dragon wings). artsy stuff. Helping friends, it could be to help them move, build something, bury a body... um... er.... help with problems/solving things... Go on adventures: explore Aquariums, Zoos, Museums, Concerts. See Fringe Theater, visit Parks, go on day trips with friends. Workout, train in martial arts. Garden (I'm new at it, turned my front yard into a garden and I'm learning as I grow things. I occasionally go out swing dancing. I recently joined the Burning Community (Burning Man), I'm part of themed camp called Gothee House. I'm not into bars or clubs.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being Awkward. I'd like to think that at times it's cute and charming. I'm sure at other times it's just... well, Awkward.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Cobalt blue hair. I've frosted the tips of my hair Cobalt blue. It's fun and suits me.

If not the blue hair, or because of the blue hair, people notice I'm a bit different.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My book preference is in the realm of fantasy and sci-fi. Recently I've enjoying the Dresden Files series by Jim Butcher. I do branch out from time to time. The most recent non fantasy/sci-fi was the memoir Dry by Augusten Burroughs and I'm currently reading The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably relaxing after the work day and week. Likely working on one of my projects, hobbies or just recharging. I'm not the type to go out, just to go out. But if there is something interesting to do, then I might be doing that.
You should message me if
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If you're artsy, geeky, nerdy and want someone to join you in finding fun, interesting things to do, and go on adventures.

Adventures, we should go on adventures.