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42 Chicago, IL Cis Man

Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
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6' 3" (1.91m)
Body Type
Average build
Not at all
Atheism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I'm a versatile individual with a wide range of experiences. I have many thoughts, opinions and feelings and tend to share my mind and go off on tangents.

I am not typical nor main stream. I'm quirky, eclectic, geeky with a touch of nerd. A loner that that has some social skills and bounces on the edges of some social circles.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have an IT Career as a Networking/Server Support/Desktop Support tech. It's a career, but it's just a job and a way to make money.

My time is spent in a variety of ways. I read, primarily sci-fi and fantasy but dabble in all sorts of reading material. News articles, opinion pieces, blogs, science articles, etc etc. I game, video games, board games, card games, table top role-playing games. I enjoy building things. Home Rehab/Improvement projects, costuming things (like mechanical dragon wings). artsy stuff. Helping friends, it could be to help them move, build something, bury a body... um... er.... help with problems/solving things... Go on adventures: explore Aquariums, Zoos, Museums, Concerts. See Fringe Theater, visit Parks, go on day trips with friends. Workout, train in martial arts. Garden (I'm new at it, turned my front yard into a garden and I'm learning as I grow things. I occasionally go out swing dancing. I recently joined the Burning Community (Burning Man), I'm part of themed camp called Gothee House. I'm not into bars or clubs.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being Awkward. I'd like to think that at times it's cute and charming. I'm sure at other times it's just... well, Awkward.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Cobalt blue hair. I've frosted the tips of my hair. It's fun and suits me.

If not the blue hair, or because of the blue hair, people notice I'm a bit different.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My book preference is in the realm of fantasy and sci-fi. Recently I've enjoying the Dresden Files series by Jim Butcher. I do branch out from time to time. The most recent non fantasy/sci-fi was the memoir Dry by Augusten Burroughs and I'm currently reading The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably relaxing after the work day and week. Likely working on one of my projects, hobbies or just recharging. I'm not the type to go out, just to go out. But if there is something interesting to do, then I might be doing that.
You should message me if
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If you're artsy, geeky, nerdy and want someone to join you in finding fun, interesting things to do, and go on adventures.

Adventures, we should go on adventures.