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41 Chicago, IL Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:31pm
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Not at all
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Under Construction.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have an IT Career as a Networking/Server Support/Desktop Support tech. It's a career, but it's just a job and a way to make money.

What I do with my life? I read. All sorts of things. News articles, books, blogs, science articles, opinion pieces, etc etc. I enjoy building things. Home Rehab/Improvement projects, costuming things (like mechanical dragon wings), help friends build artsy stuff. Go on adventures exploring Aquariums, Zoos, Museums, Concerts, Fringe Theater, Parks, day trips with friends, etc. Workout, train in martial arts. Garden (I'm new at it, turned my front yard into a garden last year, I'm learning as I grow. I occasionally go out swing dancing. I recently joined the Burning Community (Burning Man), I'm part of Gothee House.
I’m really good at
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Being Awkward. I'd like to think that at times it's cute and charming. I'm sure at other times it's just... well, Awkward.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Cobalt blue hair. I've frosted the tips of my hair Cobalt blue.

It might be noticed I'm a bit quirky.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My book preference is in the realm of fantasy and sci-fi. Recently I've enjoying the Dresden Files series by Jim Butcher and I'm on book 8. I do branch out from time to time. The most recent non fantasy/sci-fi was the memoir Dry by Augusten Burroughs and I'm currently reading The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I might be out, but not likely. Unless there is something more interesting than a bar or the usual social activity. Something has to interest me more than my own projects, hobbies or my need to recharge after a full day working. I'm not the type to go out, just to go out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm shy at first.
I'm not likely to initiate contact or send the first message..
You should message me if
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You should message me if you're artsy, geeky, nerdy and want someone to join you in finding fun, interesting things to do, and go on adventures. Adventures, we should go on adventures.

But, I'm probably either caught up in my hobbies, pondering random things, shy or likely all of that at the same time . So messaging me is probably the way to go.