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41 M Chicago, IL

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:20pm
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Not at all
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm looking to find people to hang out, have fun, chat, spend time with and have adventures. I'm not looking to jump into anything serious. If it develops into something serious, cool, but I'm not looking to rush anything.

I'm fairly eclectic and have a wide range of interests. I like being a jack of all trades and knowing a little about a lot. I enjoy things like Fringe Theater, Concerts (again a wide range of music types), Games (Board games, Card games, Roleplaying games), Museums, Art Galleries, Aquariums, Renaissance Faires, Anime/Comic Cons, etc etc.

If you're familiar with the MBTI I'm an INTP. Yes, I'm an introvert. Albeit, a social introvert, but an introvert. I'm someone who’s personal energy (physical as well as mental) tends to be drained by social interaction and recharged through more solitary pursuits. I tend to prefer, or even thrive in, more solitary activities like spending time with a special someone or an occasional outing with a small group of good friends, rather than dealing with large groups of people. I prefer lower levels of social stimulation like theater, museums, art galleries to be my preference and find incredibly busy venues – such as loud noisy bars or parties to be boring. This isn't to say that I never do more social things. I like concerts very much. I enjoy being at them, but yes, when it's done and over, I'm drained and need to recharge. Just like with my more geeky pursuits, such as, the Renaissance Faire, Anime and Comic Cons. They are fun, I'm social and a bit extroverted as with concerts, but when it's done, I'm drained.
What I’m doing with my life
Seeing what unfolds.

I have an IT Career Networking/Server Support/Desktop Support. I like an enjoy computers and helping people, but it's a job. A career level job but a job. I don't like using it as a way to identify myself.Unfortunately I have to since that is what society is conditioned for. Everyone wants to know "what you do" and equate it with "who you are" and their idea of what they think a person is that works that type of job/career. They don't spend time, or want to spend time, learning about "who you are". Sorry, I stepped up on a soap box, I do that from time to time. Comes with having opinions and a willingness to share/speak them. :D

What I really do with my life? Well, with what little of it that is left to me after having to work the job for income, I do my best to enjoy it. I read. Books, news articles, blogs, opinion pieces. Talk to people about things that they find important, share what I think is important. Build things. Home Rehab/Improvement projects, costuming things (like mechanical dragon wings), help friends build artsy stuff. Go on adventures to Aquariums, Zoos, Museums, Concerts, Fringe Theater, Parks, day trips with friends, etc. Workout, train in martial arts. Garden (I'm new at it, turned my front yard into a garden last year. Had some successes, made some mistakes, looking forward to trying new things this year).
I’m really good at
Being Awkward. I'd like to think that at times it cute and charming. I'm sure at other times it's just... well, Awkward.
The first things people usually notice about me
One first sight, I'm tall and look like a typical white bread middle class guy.

After chatting with me... I'm still tall, but not the typical white bread middle class guy. I'm a bit quirky and even though I'm middle class now, that's not where I came from.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I'm an analyzer/occasional over thinker. I could be thinking about what happened or what I observed. Or just pondering the inside of my own mind. I'm an introvert and introspective.
On a typical Friday night I am
I might be out, but not likely unless there is something more interesting than a bar or "hanging out". I'm not the type to go out, just to go out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I really don't have anything private. I'm very open. Ask and it's likely I'll tell you.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You should message me if you're artsy, geeky, nerdy and want someone to join you in finding fun, interesting things to do.

Adventures, we should go have adventures.