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thinkofmethere

45 / F / Straight / Single

New York, New York

Her Details

Last Online
May 9
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Law / Legal Services
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Greek (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a warm, fun-loving, curious and approachable person seeking the same for a long-term partnership. Please read on!

I love to get out there and explore new places and experience new things (that doesn't mean I'm a risk-taker though...I'm not really into sky diving or zip-lining, or black diamond skiing!). I'm very curious about a lot of things, especially history, people, and the way things are made.

I'm self-confident yet humble, a good partner yet independent, interested in people's thoughts and concerns yet mind my own business.

My humor goes from dry, sarcastic, witty and clever to down right silly (who doesn't love a good belly laugh now and then?). Clever conversation and humor turn me on....

I try to eat well and stay healthy. My next big purchase will be a road bike (I left my 20-year old 10 speed back in Boston, and I miss it!). I love to ride - it's a great way to see the Great Outdoors and meet all kinds of people.
What I’m doing with my life
Originally from Boston, I moved to NYC 8 years ago to pursue a career in merchandise licensing. I lost interest and changed careers, although with a "red thread" linking the two. I'm currently a Legal Secretary with a prominent firm, and the job and firm are absolutely great (the "red thread" is contract negotiation). Although I don't actually negotiate contracts anymore, I read and revise those that my attorneys draft. It's quite interesting!
I’m really good at
.....making friends, learning new things, playing my flute, snapping pics, my job.....to name a few. I have a good eye for art and design - I design and construct quilts, enjoy playing with paper, pencils, and paint.
I'll probably think of more things later - check back often!
The first things people usually notice about me
Physically, my lips! Next, my smile and sparkly personality. My hair is sometimes a topic of conversation (why, I have no idea - maybe because I change the style often?).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Life of Pi, The Road, Angela's Ashes, Me Talk Pretty One Day, Atonement, The Great Gatsby, the Color Purple, The Kite Runner, 1776, From Beirut to Jerusalem, The World is Flat, The Human Stain.....
Movies: Life of Pi, Two for the Road, Breakfast at Tiffany's, The Help, Legends of the Fall, The Hangover, Atonement, Ray, Borat, anything with Robert DeNiro or Al Pacino; genres such as Foreign, Independent, and Documentaries.
Music: Classical, Jazz (especially The Great American Songbook), Pop, Blues; The Beatles, Michael Jackson, retro including most Disco (esp. Donna Summer), some Motown, Elvis, sounds of the '60's, and working out to House music.
Food: Cheese. Isn't it a Food Group?
The six things I could never do without
In no particular order:
My Family
Memories
Cheese/Wine
My Flute
My sewing machine/knitting needles/fabric
My curiousity
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How things are made (or work) - I like to reverse-engineer things.

What to read next, what to eat/cook next, restaurants to experience, wines I've read about, places to go, things to do.

Since I consider myself a considerate, thoughtful and sympathetic person, I spend a lot of time thinking about other people.
On a typical Friday night I am
out with friends or meeting new ones. If I happen not to go out, I'll be home doing the Sunday NYTimes Crossword Puzzle, reading something, watching TV, or editing photos on the computer.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm an open book. Nothing to admit here!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 38–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
Our profiles match, you live near me, and you are a dedicated, loyal, intelligent person with a good heart and level head.