Let's say you are 35 (how the @#$# did that happen?!). We'll say you have dated some great men, made some friends and had some fun. We'll say you are happily employed and in round 4 of university (PhD) but still working full-time! We will also say you are now a single dad because your other half hasn't arrived yet. He better have a good reason for being so late! :-P
We'll say social justice is important to you; intellect is important to you; spontaneity is important to you. Let's say you can be serious so you are looking for a guy who is a joker to draw the clown out of you. We'll say family is important beyond measure to you and your parents are two of the closest people in your life. We'll add that you're not looking for a marriage proposal but a beverage is a good start.
If guys like what they see and read, they should drop a message.
p.s. I've realized communication is key! I try to be as open as I can about what I want and need from a better half and hope he tries too. :-)
"Every relationship will fail until one doesn't." Dan Savage