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  • Ages 21–33
  • Near me
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My details

Last online
Aug 28
Pansexual, Queer
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A recent New York transplant enjoying the incredible creative energy of the city, its endless series of museums, and its plethora of coffee shops.

Comfortable with a local roast or a Starbucks, as long as I have a laptop by which to edit my current novel.

Introvert and soft-spoken, preferring fireplaces and books to bars or clubs, but all too glad to devote a night to a great theater experience and a long discussion of it over a microbrew.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Making inter-webs. Pounding keyboards. Creative geographic refactoring. Pragmatic capitalistic integration and ingratiation. Baking cookies.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Coming up with creative ideas. Turning those ideas into actual creative results.

Writing more sci-fi short and urban fantasy novels than I can handle, then rewriting them anyway.

Shifting into a minimalist-stic life mode and wondering how I ever lived with so much stuff.

Buying more books than I can safely haul back from the bookstore.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I talk rather quickly. Between inheriting the speed of my New Yorker grandfather and developing a southern drawl (without the respective clarity or slowness), I can sometimes sound unintelligible. I like to think that I have entirely too much to say.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Carl Sagan rocks my world, as does Scott McCloud. Non-fiction tends to overwhelm my recent reading list, especially on the topics of human motivation. At the same time, I always have more than enough tech-topic tomes to read.

Movies: Blade Runner, V for Vendetta, Me and You and Everyone We Know, I Heart Huckabees, The Girl Who Leapt Through Time, Hayao Miyazaki and Studio Ghibli (categorically), Toy Story, Wall-E, Citizen Kane, Princess Bride.

Comics (Web and Print): PS 238, Nodwick, Girl Genius, Order of the Stick, Kevin & Kell, Freefall, sequentialart, xkcd, Three Panel Soul,, Devil's Panties, Scary Go Round, and Sandman, to name a few.

Television: Arrested Development, the original Law & Order, 30 Rock. I would list more if not for a intentional lack of cable TV. Recommendations for series already on DVD are appreciated.

Food: Couscous, a well-prepared taco. Most importantly, our local Your Pie restored my appreciation for a well-made, quality pizza.

Music: Jonathan Coulton,, Golden Oldies, Classical (thank you, NPR), Bob Dylan, Tom Waits.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order:
* Delicious tea
* My laptop
* An hour of quiet each day.
* Chocolate
* Coffee shops
* Books
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why haven't we adopted the interrobang (combining the exclamation point and the question mark) into formal grammar so that I properly express my feelings in my last sentence? When will we ever see another movie as good as WALL-E? If one of my highschool and college classmates just made it into Pixar as an animation, can I achieve the same?

And please, what makes it so hard to get too, to, and two right, just for starters?

How long should I enjoy close, fulfilling company before considering the long-term prospects? Someone out there will make the perfect partner in creative endeavors and in life (one and the same, really).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Lately, I've poured all of my extra weekend time into my writing efforts but, having finished the latest one, I want to take time off for a social recharge. This likely means a few media or gaming nights with friends.

I also remain on the lookout for a regular downtown hangout, especially a quieter one. Send me your recommendations.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I went out and bought new Transformer toys just to put on my desk at work.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You wish that the Boston Museum of Natural History would let you stay overnight. A night of NetFlix and homemade cinnamon rolls excites you more than a dive bar or dance floor. You could spend an entire Saturday just writing, painting, reading, or the like, and feel glad to have done so. You want to co-author interactive fiction or visual novels.