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31 New York, NY Man, Genderqueer

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 24–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:23pm
Pansexual, Queer
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Atheism and laughing about it
Might want kids
English (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat), C++ (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Enjoying the incredible creative energy of the city, its endless series of museums, and its plethora of coffee shops.

Comfortable with a local roast or a Starbucks, as long as I have a place to edit a novel, read my Kindle, or chat with you about what we're each working on.

Introvert and soft-spoken, preferring fireplaces and books to bars or clubs, but all too glad to devote a night to a great theater experience and a long discussion of it over wine or scotch.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Software development during the day, where I'm helping to (if very indirectly) cure cancer!

Writer and networker at night. If I'm not editing a novel or working on a freelance project, then I'm drafting a game book or making introductions between friends. Occasional tutor.

Regular gamer, of both digital and tabletop inclinations.

Can't wait to move into a bigger place and start cooking more again.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting excited about thing. This chocolate-drizzled waffle is delicious! We've landed a robot on a friggin' comets! Everything is awesome, and I'm glad to celebrate that fact.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My intense, hazel eyes or my puppy-like enthusiasm for everything life has to offer.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Carl Sagan, Scott McCloud. Getting Things Done. Many, many books on writing software and fiction. Recently read and loved The Ethical Slut.

Movies: Hayao Miyazaki and Studio Ghibli, Pixar, Princess Bride.

Comics (Web and Print): PS 238, Nodwick, Girl Genius, Order of the Stick, Kevin & Kell, Freefall, sequentialart, xkcd, Three Panel Soul,, Devil's Panties, Scary Go Round, and Sandman, to name a few.

Television: Arrested Development, Steven Universe.

Food: tacos and burritos, fried chicken, falafel, chocolate.

Music: Classic Rock, EDM, Metric, video game soundtracks, Jonathan Coulton, Jim Guthrie.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order:
* Delicious tea
* My laptop
* An hour of quiet each day.
* Chocolate
* Coffee shops
* Books
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why haven't we adopted the interrobang (combining the exclamation point and the question mark) into formal grammar so that I properly express my feelings in my last sentence? When will we ever see another movie as good as WALL-E? If one of my highschool and college classmates just made it into Pixar as an animation, can I achieve the same?

And please, what makes it so hard to get too, to, and two right, just for starters?

How many creative cohorts can I have in my life at once? How soon could we buy an apartment of our own, where we can all collaborate on awesome work?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually at one lower-key social gathering or another, usually meeting friends for drinks, a game night, or meeting someone new. Planning to have more social nights in with friends when I move to a place with a bigger kitchen.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I went out and bought new Transformer toys just to put on my desk at work.
You should message me if
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You wish that the Boston Museum of Natural History would let you stay overnight. A night of NetFlix and homemade cinnamon rolls excites you more than a dive bar or dance floor. You could spend an entire Saturday just writing, painting, reading, or the like, and feel glad to have done so. You want to co-author interactive fiction or visual novels.

If you're open to ethical non-monogamy. I'm enamored with the idea of knowing that my partners could have someone else around when I'm not available. I've just started embracing it, so there's still much for me to learn there. Want to teach me, or learn together?