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thirteenhorses

28 / F / straight / Single

Milwaukee, Wisconsin

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
Full figured
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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I am a shy extrovert, witty, and bookish.

My Self-Summary

The arts are the center of my life. I draw, paint, write, sing, attempt to play a musical instrument or 2 or 3....oh the joy!
I am kind of shy, but once i feel comfortable around people I start to spew off random jokes, usually vulgar in nature. I just can't help it.

What I’m doing with my life

I am a very busy person, but at the same time, it would be nice to have a member of the opposite sex in the picture. So maybe you are busy, too?

I am a full time student, studying art. Also I work a part time gig.
I am working on my under-grad, and plan on going on to more school after I am finished, possibly doing archival work or library sciences.
I am also rekindling a music project long forgotten, in which I play guitar and sing. Although, I am shy, so one might find me reluctant to sing in front of anyone but close friends (unless i have had a few drinkies?)

I’m really good at

Cooking: especially tofu stir-fry (crispy tofu is the secret!). or Indian food.
Painting: I can draw faces pretty well. And bodies.
Laughing: one of my favorite things to do.
Talking before thinking. Feeling Anxious. Obsessing over silly stuff, like a painting, a character in a book, or a band.

Not good at: Typing, smiling in pictures, submitting to authority.

The first things people usually notice about me

My hair. Usually get a lot of compliments on that. Sometimes it makes me want to cut it all off.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

books: Black Spring by Henry Miller, Kafka on the Shore by Haruki Murakami, American Psycho by Bret Easton Ellis, Our Band Could Be Your Life by Michael Azerrad, Black Hole by Charles Burns, Blood and Guts in High School by Kathy Acker. Also, most classic literature. that is what i thought of right now.

films: Dead Man, Taxi Driver, Science of Sleep, Motorcycle Diaries, errrr anything John Waters or Jim Jarmusch. Sheesh. Lots more.

Music is so complicated. I like good things. I can say I really like folk & country, whether new stuff (Elliott Smith, some Blitzen Trapper), or classics like Townes Van Zandt, Neil Young, Gram Parsons.
I also like loud crazy shit like the Stooges, the Birthday Party, the Swans.
Some old favorites of mine: PJ Harvey, Nick Cave & the Bad Seeds (up to about 2002ish), Low (highlight of the year Alan Sparhawk put me on a guest-list to a sold out show), Danzig, Big Star, the Cramps, the Gun Club, Enon. and i will always have a place in my heart for Peaches. So much more, too.

Food:ESPECIALLY Indian, Mexican and Japanese food. I am building up a spice tolerance right now. favorite indian- saag aloo, if you know what that is, you are golden!

The six things I could never do without

My cats.
Music.
Something to draw with/on.
Laughter.
Dirty Jokes, and someone who appreciates them.
My friends!

I spend a lot of time thinking about

people, pictures, paintings, music, chords, that one song by Big Star, how I should empty the pan in the fridge before it gets moldy, weird stuff i hear at work, "how can you tell if a guy really likes you?"....so much randomness

On a typical Friday night I am

Out with friends, at a show to see some live music, or perhaps hibernating. It kind of depends on my mood.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I stole a copy of Whitman's "Leaves of Grass" when I was in middle school. (It was worth it!)

And I lived in the UK for a little stint where I worked as a manual dishwasher in an Inn/Restaurant in Wales. I was pulled off the floor as a waitress because I was too nice and thus too "American."

You should message me if

you are intense and creative. You are busy, too. You think Spinal Tap would be hilarious to watch again.....errr I dunno, you realize I am pretty incredible and the most beautiful thing you have ever seen.....