Hey I'm Jay.

I'm a laid back guy looking for whatever is coming my way. Would be great to meet some nice people and/or that special someone.

I like to take things easy as much as possible. But, I do not hesitate to roll up my sleeves when things needs to get done.

I'm an art/sports/tech/history/law buff. I just love to learn. teach and have fun. I believe that's what life is all about. Everyone/everything has value, and I love to just sit back and listen about people's experiences. It amazes me!

I take things very lightly and joke around as much as possible, and (I believe) seem very cool under pressure. I hate drama. Life's too short to feel bitter. Learn from your mistake and then move on.

I'm also very family oriented. I have many nieces and nephews and its just so much fun to hang around them and be a kid sometimes. Seeking their eyes spark up when I enter the room makes my day!

Anyway, I'm looking for that great distraction in life. Who knows where it will lead me, but I'm determined to find out.

Working as the lead Software Engineer (govn't contractor) in Silver Spring, MD.

I am currently planning/working on a software startup. This is my pet project. I hope to be able to teach the world (or at least lead them in the right direction) about "art"... for free. Intense? Yes, but someone has to do it.

Hopefully, I can retire in a few years if it all works out.

figuring things out. I just happen to have a knack for it. Don't know why lol. This can range from any type of discipline (art/tech/sports). Once I learn something, I tend to become a master of it. Guess that's why I'm good at Jeopardy lol...

I am also pretty good at making friends and putting people at ease. Only rarely have I made an enemy. This usually happens if someone misinterprets my intentions (I joke around a lot) and refuses to hear my out. If you get to know me, you'll be fine. Promise.

I'm a small guy. So, I'm sure that's the first thing people notice about me.

Other than that, I guess its my mind and character. People tend to latch onto me not because I'm friendly but I listen and reason. I like to hear ideas out before I interject. At least, I hope that's the reason why lol. I'm always ready to help out and give concrete advice.

books - The Master Switch

movie - Walk Hard lol, Kill Bill

shows - New Girl, Whitney, Breaking Bad

1) Laptop - need it

2) Pencil/paper - I'm always doodling things. It can be a random sketch or an object, or mapping things out...

3) me horn - I've been playing trumpet since I was a wee little lad. I also grew attached to my bass, guitar, and piano. i just love playing music.

4) ...(I'll think of something later)

5) ...(I'll think of something later)

6) ...(I'll think of something later)

world domination lol.

No, I would love for the world to be a better place. Like I said above, I like to fix things. I want people (and the world as a whole) to just be at peace. Its crazy out there and I hate to think that people have to suffer just because they happen to be born in the wrong place.

I would love to be wealthy young so that I can just do philanthropy (why wait, I can do it now). We'll see...

working working working... But I am open for distractions.

I want to attend one of those parties like the Bacardi 1950's commercial. That would be amazing!

This isn't really private but...

I cry like a baby each time I watch Disney's The Little Match Girl.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yUSzQBaWq0Q

Its so sad. At the end, large crocodile tears emerge and I get very upset.

Its beautifully drawn an animated. The music is amazing. But be warned, the film evokes a very powerful emotion.

you like chatting endlessly about nothingness.