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thisbe

31 / F / Straight / Single

Montclair, New Jersey

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 5:07pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am the type of woman who wants to write you explosive love letters on foggy mirrors and hold your hand while stargazing. My personality type is INFJ, which means I feel intensely, but am reserved. I like to write, read library books, and spend time with my Wheaten Terrier. I also enjoy art, music, museums, and hiking. For all I'm introspective and sensitive, I'm equally passionate and loving. It just takes a special person to bring it out of me.

I seek a safety net, best friend, and lover who values love, simplicity, gentleness, honesty, fidelity, depth, and goodness. I wish I grew up in a time when finding a loving, devoted man was not like seeking an unlit match in the dark.

I am devoted, mature, and INFJ
What I’m doing with my life
I teach. Do you care to help grade papers? ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
(a) Movies: El Crimen de Padre Amaro, Camila

(b) Books: Of Love and Other Demons, Middlesex, The Bible, The Odyssey, Running with Scissors, The Glass Castle, Princess Sultana's Circle, The Unbearable Lightness of Being

(c) Hanson, Chris Tomlin, Matthew West, Brandon Heath

(d) cereal
The six things I could never do without
family, faith, good sleep and downtime, my journal, animals, love or a hope of it
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How 3 AM, a pillow can't replace the key in lock completion of a man.
On a typical Friday night I am
up to something good.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I sucked my thumb until the age of 14.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 22–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You have a soul deeper than a puddle, you are intelligent but not pretentious, we have a high percentage match, you are low-maintenance and down-to-earth and want someone who is the same, you are not a manchild, you are educated and financially secure, you believe in monogamy, you're the marriage-and-children type, you know relationships are 50/50, and you like introverted, good, passionate women who reveal themselves only to very special people.