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33 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–33
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and very serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I wear heavy glasses, haul my hair to one side. I like bars where I'm not fighting with pop songs for conversation. I used to go to a gym, but a thin girl in a summer frock thought it best I get sensible and buy a nice bicycle; I did just that, and now spend my time wondering where men on treadmills are going. I dislike bicycle conversation, but love that flying down a street in summer feels like magic.

I owe my parents for pleasant memories. I'm Irish by birth, but my accent wears any number of adventures they sought out. I grew up across various parts of sub-Saharan Africa. I had a bonafide tree-house with a table and chairs, played badminton with Benson the gardener, and learned how to trap birds using tree sap. The latter has yet to come in useful, but I imagine it might.
What I’m doing with my life
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Stumbling in good directions, without ever really meaning to. I work for a small start-up trying to address civic engagement---helping people better understand who their representatives are, and how they're being represented.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Picking the right words to put a sentence together.

Organizing, unwillingly.

Collecting scarves in a temperate climate.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm a bucket of subdued optimism.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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On books: Raymond Queneau's 'We always treat women too well', and not just for a well-penned title. Otherwise, Coetzee, Didion, Gordimer, Hemingway, amongst others.

On music, I listen to good and bad things almost all of the time.

On television, "You're the worst" is pretty charming.

On movies, I think 'The Beginners' was the last flick I loved enough to watch more than once.

Food is a fine thing. I'm into it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A bicycle, my hairdresser's hands, crisp weather, good sentences, and the guardian's live text coverage of rugby and cricket.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I was an inquisitive kid. As a four year old, I ran into a panic when I found my two dogs stuck together. I phoned the police and all. I was pretty disappointed to find fourteen adults laughing at me.
You should message me if
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There's a sexy jam playing in the background?

You probably shouldn't message me if you think it's reasonable to describe yourself to an internet stranger using a four-letter myer briggs abbreviation.